The parents of Jason Pulman – a trans teenager who took his own life in Eastbourne in April 2022 – have called for more support for children and families awaiting care after a jury inquest found systemic failures by a range of services could have contributed to his death.
Jason’s mother, Emily Pulman, said: “They need so much more resources and not to have one appointment that’s years away.”
She said: “There needs to be regular input with these kids, so it’s not just about their gender, it’s about their mental health overall.”
Jason’s stepfather, Mr Pulman, added: “We want to change the system and we want to change it for the families because it’s a very lonely, isolating place to be when you think you’re the only person whose child is going through this.”
Jason was referred to the Gender Identity Development Service in London in February 2020. After following up in October 2020, Jason was told there was a 26-month wait for his first appointment.
Jurors heard how Jason became increasingly frustrated at the wait and Mr Pulman noted he appeared to have “given up”.
Mrs Pulman said: “I know it broke Jason. Jason struggled so much with the wait.”
Data obtained by the Press Association showed there were 5,769 children on the national waiting list at the end of May 2024 for gender care.
Mr Pulman believes the numbers are “hugely underestimated”.
He added: “I hope that these families are given faster responses, are given emotional support.”
