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Congregants support music director after he’s fired from church for being in same-sex marriage

Graham Robson November 12, 2024

Fred Szczepanski, a beloved longtime music director at a northern Michigan church, has been fired just a few months before his retirement after officials learned he was in a same-sex marriage.

Following the announcement, congregants carried signs outside the church that said: ‘All? Are Welcome’, ‘God Includes, Not Excludes’ and ‘Fired Not Retired.’

Bob Holden, a member of the choir, who left their seats empty and refused to sing, said: ‘He got fired because he’s gay. He’s extremely talented, he’s perfect on the piano, he has perfect pitch and because of him, I look forward to going to church every week. I’m divorced. Do I get thrown out next?’

Szczepanski, who had been the church’s music director for 34 years, said he was fired on October 18 for marrying his longtime partner Bill Thompson in a same-sex ceremony in Nevada in 2020.

In a letter to parishioners, the diocese said his gay marriage violates the ministerial agreement condition of his employment.

‘A public act of same-sex marriage is a formal recognition that a relationship is more than friendship, and thereby jeopardizes a ministerial agreement for employment,’ the diocese said.

Liz Yarch, a former member of the choir, said she had resigned over the firing. ‘Some people were told Fred retired, but last I checked, people who have served for over 30 years get a retirement party,’ Yarch said. ‘Fred was fired for his personal life and I find that cruel.’

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