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OPINION: Why being transgender was irrelevant in my General Election 2017 campaign

As I stood on stage, a room full of expectant people looking up at me I was totally focused on the next words that I would hear. “Sophie Rose Cook, Labour Party, 20,882.”

Sophie Cook, Labour Candidate for East Worthing & Shoreham

In the space of five short weeks we’d achieved the seemingly impossible, taking a previously safe Tory seat and making it a marginal, increasing the Labour vote by 114% with one of the biggest swings in the country at 19.8%.

At the start of the general election campaign no one gave the Labour Party a chance, both nationally and here in East Worthing & Shoreham.

The constituency had always been blue and the Tory incumbent, Tim Loughton, had been the MP for 20 years.

He felt safe and secure that no one could ever challenge him, and I’m sure that the selection of a little known transgender TV presenter as the Labour candidate only added to the feeling that he would increase his 15,000 majority.

My selection caused a few waves, I was told that “this isn’t Brighton” and that the people of the constituency wouldn’t warm to a transgender candidate.

The press gave my campaign some coverage and despite being one of nine transgender candidates I was the one that got the most attention due to my profile from working in football and TV.

“Labour candidate could become first transgender MP” said one headline whilst another mentioned the fight for LGBT rights, “Trans activist is fighting to oust anti-LGBT Conservative politician.”

Being transgender and in the public eye I was already used to abuse, both online and in the real world. I’d been trolled by various groups including receiving death threats on Twitter and as I stepped into the political arena I was bracing myself for a renewed onslaught of hatred.

But then something unexpected happened.

Instead of the abuse I was greeted with love and support, sure there were still a few transphobic remarks online but nothing like I’d experienced previously.

I’d heard first hand accounts of trans people moving out of the constituency because of abuse and yet, when I started to talk to people, they responded with warmth and openness.

My gender identity that had hit the headlines around the world seemed to mean nothing to the constituents that I met, it was never mentioned on the doorsteps, the street stalls or the hustings. The only people who made it an issue were the press, not the voters. They listened to the policies, my ideas, passion and belief and they embraced me.

On June 8 nearly 21,000 of them chose to put their mark next to my name on the ballot paper.

They weren’t voting for a trans woman, they were voting for Sophie Cook, they were voting for the Labour Party. They saw beyond the headlines and the things that made us different and in their way struck a massive blow for trans equality.

We now have the most diverse parliament ever with 45 LGB MPs, I missed out on adding a T to that by 5000 votes.

We need transgender politicians, after all everyone in society needs to feel represented. But the main reason why I believe that the time is right for a trans MP has nothing to do with equality or diversity, it’s down to the constituents who put their faith in me to represent them, regardless of my gender identity.

Since the election I’ve spoken to hundreds of people who said that I’ve given them hope for the first time.

That feeling goes both ways, they saw that there is more that unites us than separates us, they saw a person rather than a label, and they too gave me hope for a brighter tomorrow.

 

Sophie Cook says why she wants to represent Brighton Kemptown for Labour

Why the time is right for me to stand for parliament by Sophie Cook.

In the 1980s at the height of the Cold War I was stationed in West Germany with an RAF Tornado squadron.

Suffering from Post Traumatic Stress having saved the life of a colleague following an explosion, I was filled with an acute sense of injustice at the way the world operated.

This was Thatcher’s Britain, the miners strike, rioting on the streets, section 28 and a war in Northern Ireland.

I would lose myself in political books trying to discover a more caring model of society, one in which people were treated with respect no matter who they were.

I already knew that I was transgender, even if I didn’t have a name for it at that point. I know that there was something about my identity that just didn’t feel right.

The mental anguish of my gender dysphoria coupled with the post traumatic stress led to depression, and then self harming and suicide attempts.

As I became more aware of what my trans identity meant I realised that any political ambitions that I might have had were out of the question, with politicians being outed for their sexuality what chance did a bisexual transgender person have.

Even when I came out in 2015 I was still terrified that by being true to myself that I would lose everything, my career in football, my family and most of all, my children.

By being true to myself I’ve lost a lot, my entire family turned their backs on me at the very moment that I needed them most, but my children have been amazing and I regularly see my two youngest kids.

When I came out I faced a choice, to either hide or to stand up and try to make a difference.

I began speaking about my journey and soon finding myself speaking at venues like Wembley Stadium and the TUC.

My story moved people, not because it was unusual but because it included universal messages of fear, loss and redemption.

I was offered a job in television and I saw this as an opportunity to continue the work that I’d done years before with my newspaper, to educate and inspire people to change the world around them.

Sophie with Leader of the Labour Party Jeremy Corbyn
Sophie with Leader of the Labour Party Jeremy Corbyn

In 2016 I was approached to stand for local political office but was barred from this opportunity unless I gave up the TV work and so, reluctantly, I had to decline.

And then Theresa May called a snap general election, the plans that I’d had to potentially stand in 2020 were thrown in overdrive and I declared an interest in becoming a candidate.

The country needs a change, years of austerity have left whole communities desperate and lost. I’ve been out on the streets of Brighton, speaking to voters and they feel isolated and unrepresented by the Tory government.

The reception to me, as a trans woman, has been positive with many declaring that it’s time for greater diversity in parliament.

The time is right, the time is now and we must all work together to achieve a more caring, more diverse society where everyone can live free from fear and where no one suffers from prejudice regardless of their gender, sexuality, gender identity, race, religion, disability or wealth.

And that is why I am standing to be a Labour Party candidate.


Sophie Cook is head of Latest LGBT+ TV, the UK’s 1st terrestrial LGBT+ TV channel and the first transgender newscaster on European terrestrial TV for Brighton based Latest TV. She is the host of Beyond The Rainbow, a weekly LGBT+ news and chat show, an ambassador for Kick It Out, a patron of Just A Ball Game? and Hate Crime ambassador for Sussex Police.

OPINION PIECE: Time for Trans people to come out of the shadows

Ahead of Transgender Day of Visibility, broadcaster Sophie Cook explains why the day remains important for trans people all over the world.

Over the past few years transgender visibility has improved greatly with a number of trans people becoming very public through the media – I was even featured on Match of the Day’s Premier League football show recently.

So why do we still need a Transgender Day of Visibility?

Unfortunately that visibility has also brought an increase in abuse and bigotry, following my appearances on the BBC the online trolling I received escalated to the point where I received death threats via Twitter.

The fight for freedom from bigotry isn’t over yet and it won’t be until every trans person can walk down the street, use the toilet of their choosing and express their identity free of fear.

For so many Trans people our overriding aim is to ‘pass’ or to achieve invisibility, to go about our lives as if our transness never existed, we want other people to accept us in our chosen gender without question or judgement.

But is this actually doing us all a disservice?

My self-confidence and self acceptance greatly improved when I let go of the concept of passing. The fear of being ‘read’ and the fear of people discovering that I wasn’t a ‘real’ woman.

It’s now more important to me to be perceived as a woman, even if logically people see a slight anomaly. It’s important to me to be authentic to myself.

That doesn’t mean that I don’t want to be the most beautiful, feminine version of me possible and I do love it when people call me Miss, but I’m not scared of people realising that I’m trans, in fact I’m very open and forthright about it.

In the same way that gay rights and acceptance improved greatly after they stopped hiding in the shadows and stood up to express their Pride is it now time for us to proclaim that we are Trans and proud of it.

Gender dysphoria can be a terrible thing that takes a huge emotional, mental and social toll on people, do those of us that have reached the stage of feeling comfortable with ourselves and our condition owe it to those that are still struggling to show that there is a light at the end of the tunnel?

Do we owe it to ourselves (and our younger, more scared selves) to stand up and fight for our rights to be recognised as valid members of society?

Transphobia seems to be the form of social hatred and bullying that is still, if not accepted, ignored by society. Whilst racism and homophobia are abhorred by all but the very narrow-minded few trans people still get the sniggers, tranny jokes and, as happened to me last week, outright abuse.

We go through hell to finally be our authentic selves and we should be proud of the fact that, even if we haven’t quite won the battle yet, we’re on the road to liberation.

Why, just at your moment of self realisation would you come out of one closet only to lock yourself in another, yet again in fear of being outed.

So perhaps it’s today that we put on our best face, most amazing outfit and strut, proud as hell down our local High Street.

I’m here, I’m Trans and I love who I am, and no ones petty minded bigotry is going to take that away from me!


Sophie is a former RAF engineer, motorbike racer, newspaper editor, football and rock photographer. She is a self harm and suicide survivor and the first transgender newscaster on European terrestrial TV for Brighton’s Latest TV, and is the head of Latest LGBT+ TV, the UK’s first terrestrial LGBT+ TV channel where she hosts Beyond The Rainbow, a weekly LGBT+ news and chat show.

She is the first trans woman to work in the Premier League as club photographer for AFC Bournemouth, she is an ambassador for Kick It Out, patron of Just A Ball Game? and has spoken at Wembley Stadium and the TUC.

Sophie is also a Hate Crime ambassador for Sussex Police and speaks regularly at conferences about LGBT+ issues and consults with a number of major companies about inclusion and diversity.


Transgender Day of Visibility?, celebrated on Friday, March 31, is dedicated to celebrating transgender people and raising awareness of the discrimination they face worldwide.

The holiday was founded by US-based transgender activist Rachel Crandall in 2009 as a reaction to the lack of LGBT holidays celebrating transgender people, citing the frustration that the only well-known transgender-centered holiday was the Transgender Day of Remembrance which mourned the murders of transgender people, but did not acknowledge and celebrate living members of the transgender community.

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