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BOOK REVIEW: First Year Out by Sabrina Symington

First Year Out

A Transition Story

Sabrina Symington

This intimate graphic novel with its warmly illustrated and humorous drawings follows Lily, as she transitions to her true self. It’s an honest story of the day to day experiences of transition, from the extraordinary to the mundane, depicted with humour, fortitude and intuition.  Depicting her experiences from coming out right through to gender reassignment surgery, Lily’s story provides vital candid advice on the social, emotional and medical aspects of transitioning and will empower anyone questioning their gender.

The illustrations and pastel colour scheme works well to promote a feeling of presence and believably in the characters. There was a few times when I thought the explanations and set up’s for Lily to question and educate curious (or hostile) characters could have been more deftly and naturally handled but overall the narrative works well enough. Dodging nothing and allowing us real understanding of the changes and adjustments needed on a regular basis this books is an utterly charming journey into a new life which allowed the reader –tans or  cis ally- to gain understanding whilst connecting with a protagonist who is likable, everyday but utterly themselves at every step of the way.

Based on the author’s experiences, from laser hair removal and coming out to her parents, through to dating, voice training and gender reassignment surgery, this intimate and witty book is a testament to being who you are and a celebration of gender diversity.

Author  Symington is an illustrator, graphic novelist and blogger from Vancouver who publishes a cool web comic Life of Bria.

Jessica Kingsley Publishers continue to produce a seriously interesting and engaging range of books that make a difference and it’s well worth a peruse of their books lists if you’re not already familiar with this excellent British publishing house.

Out Now

£15.99

For more info or to buy the book see the publishers website here

BOOK REVIEW: Wanting In Arabic by Trish Salah

Wanting In Arabic

Trish Salah

Canadian author Trish Salah’s poetry collection Wanting In Arabic is just into its second edition and if you’re unfamiliar with her work, I’d ask you politely to stop reading that twaddle on your phone and go get a copy of this creative, energetic and beautiful poetry.

Salah is clever, not just intelligent but has the fury of lightning in her work, and her lyric form is ancient and yet has an urgent vibrancy which is utterly modern and sexy with it. There’s a lot of sexy queer/lesbian eroticism in this work, but it squirms, writhes and boldly takes its stance just about anywhere the words can go. Salah is furious and gentle, shocking and so,so tender it moved me, and I felt I didn’t understand some of her work. Always a powerful tool of the poet, to draw you back to their lathe of meaning and whittle some more of your mind away with their sharp edged observations.

Braiding theoretical concerns with the ambivalences of sexed and raced identity, with profound romanticism, Wanting in Arabic attempts to traverse the fantasies of loss and aggressive nostalgia in order to further a poetics of generous struggle and comic rather than tragic misrecognition.

Beautiful and with sotto Canadian echos of Elizabeth Smart’s intertwining of spontanitey and propriety, of place and thought, the melding and moulding of words here feels plastic still, forming under the pins of our eyes but still wriggling to move and express again, Salah’s work is a subtle explosion of images and ideas that are compulsively interesting.

A treat!

Track down a copy if you can

BOOK REVIEW: Highland Fling by Anna Larner

Highland Fling

Anna Larner

With its eye catching cover artwork from Sheri Halal this is one of those books that breaths ‘good reading’.

In this lovely debut book we follow the romantic adventures of Eve Eddison before she travels to the Scottish Highlands. There she falls, hard, for an enigmatic Forestry officer, Moira Burns.

Eve and Moria have loads of baggage, they hug it close, both reluctant to give it up, face their daemons and move on, Moria more than Eva,  and the book examines, with warmth and humour if either of them can get past pain for present pleasure. From the breath-taking Highlands of Scotland to the buzz of a Leicester gay bar, family and friendship are tested to breaking point as the narrative pressure builds in this wonderful engaging Lesbian romance by novelist Anna Larner.

The author Larner has the perfect ear for a certain type of LGBT space, and weaves a convincing queer & lesbian psychogeography into the narrative,  and her own experiences and previous work with archiving and creating  space for LGBT history to be shared gives this book an authentic feel, not just in tone, geography and accent but also the emotional honesty that marks this book out as such a charming read.

Out now. 

you can see more info or buy the book here. 

BOOK REVIEW: Two Gentlemen Sharing by William Corlett

Two Gentlemen Sharing

William Corlett

Not a new book, but new to me and without doubt this is an underappreactited British Gay classic, hugely enjoyable with all the subtleties of a delightful comedy of manners set in a small and apparently quiet village in England. It’s Armistead Maupin crossed with  Mapp and Lucia in a uproarious gay comedy of rural life. And -for once- that’s actually how this book it, seriously funny, viciously on point about the machinations and subtle point scoring of English village life and skewers plenty of recognisable types from British daily life.

Two gay men, recently in love, move in and set up home together and these offers up a serious challenge to the various larger than life county living styles that needs to adjust to the fact of this coupling getting on with their daily lives.  One of their neighbour loaths them, but he’s got a shady secret of his own, the rest of the village make space, embrace or find some kind of chivying along to make it work, not that the protagonists are having any of that.

It’s a brilliant examination of clash, culture, class, urban and country, gay and straight, progressive and intolerant and made me laugh out loud constantly.  Corlett’s humour is gentle but relentless, ravaging personal prejudices and giving us more than a few delightful revelations as the story unfolds. This is the perfect gift for the reader in your life who may not have heard of this classic 20 year old book and is looking to expand their book shelves with quality writing they may have missed first time round. My copy was given to me by a french friend who ‘couldn’t believe’ that I’d never read it, as everyone in France has read it at some point, British Barbarians!

You can find plenty of good quality second hand copies here or if you prefer new, you can have it popped in your box from these kind people. 

REVIEW: Strangers on a Train @ THEATRE ROYAL

Strangers on a Train

Strangers On A Train is based on the  1950 novel by Patricia Highsmith with a heafty nod at that Oscar-Winning Alfred Hitchcock film.

We begin the story as a fateful encounter takes place between two men in a carriage of a train crossing America. Guy is the successful businessman with a nagging jealousy; Charles is the cold, calculating chancer with a dark secret. A drunken dangerous plan seems to develop from this casual conversation setting in motion a chain of events that will change the two men’s lives forever.

The cast is led by Christopher Harper, playing the charismatic and manipulative Charles.  John Middleton as Detective Arthur Gerard , Jack Ashton as the troubled Guy Haines alongside Hannah Tointon as Guy’s fiancé Anne Faulkner.

I suppose I’ve been on too many trains, with too many drunk and weird strangers to find this stylish over stuffed Cho-Cho anything other than a vintage trip along memory lane, carefully crafted to appeal but not to challenge. Like a trip on the Blue Bell railway, or a return to Hassocks on the last train on a Friday night,  it gives good visuals, but felt oddly unsatisfying. It looks great, stylish, technically accomplished and its thumping narrative rhythm never lets anything get tired, there’s no time for that, but I was still not on the edge of my seat.

A thriller is supposed to thrill and director Anthony Banks seems to have missed out this vital part of the production. Most of the acting is convincing Christopher Harpers speech about his stalking and murdering the first Mrs Haines is compelling and he convinces us of his deranged, entitled, morally corrupt world, but when this dissolves into dipsomania it becomes a more predicable performance.  Although Jack Ashton’s performance is strong thought-out  and they work well together as a pair their increasingly fraught and scheming  interactions failed to convince me of a man driven to murder against his will.

I, sigh…. have an issue with these sotto voice homophobic characters, Hitchcock loved killing his twisted queers off and Highsmith also not so subtly suggests that the drunk, repressed & unhinged Bruno gets exactly what he deserves. Blame it on the mother, Pat. The drinking and repression echo’s Highsmiths’ own experience and this gives us insight into the author more than the play, curiously of all the repressed evil homo’s she wrote she also sneaked a ‘happily every after’ lesbian romance novel out immediately after penning Strangers on a train, it was called The price of salt.

Hannah Tointon is lovely, floating through on a cloud of perfect costume and flawless coiffeur giggling and getting some good lines  but without much substance in the role.

Some of the more seminal moments are not even staged, the murders, the discovery’s and the ex-police man role is reduced to just about as cardboard as you can get without corrugating in front of our eyes. John Middleton was wasted in this production. We were warned by the ushers this was a ‘quiet play’ before going in, not so for Middleton, he roared!

The set is a delight in its filmic glory but I wondered during another of the moments when my concentration begin to slide as much as the geometric panes on the stage why bother making it into a play if the effects are going full movie hog?  It’s great to watch and suggested a huge Chinese box puzzle, one where all the elements had to be aligned correctly before the secret was resolved. The witty, clever projections from Duncan McLean are a delight and assist in suggesting place and tone successful.   This is the same team who worked very successfully on the atmospheric and enjoyable Gaslight tour last year.

Costumes and lighting are lovely, sound scapes on point and the set, once again, looks like Edward Hooper and Frank Lloyd Wright got fresh with each other on the I Love Lucy set. It’s perfect retro Americana. I wonder if by intent the constant unsettled movement of the set to expose new space, new scene and new action results in a feeling of things isolated and disconnected from their environments, unsettling us and making me think of the solitude of each of these characters lives.

The play gets faster as it nears the end, with accusation, denouement and discovery landing with great thumps alongside some delicious acting as they all crumble into madness & gothic despair.  The final scene is superb and closes the action well, leaving the plot holes gaping still, but the audience seemed satisfied with the denouement and gave this production some serious applause.

My companion enjoyed herself immensely; I wandered off into the cold night without so much as a shiver but with some superb new ideas for wallpaper.  This is a charming production of a flawed play done with great style and commitment by the cast and this Iron Horse steams along at a great place but lacks a true heart, either one beating with dark wickedness or light goodness that would pull it up to heaven.

Until Sat 13th January

Theatre Royal

Brighton

For more info or to buy tickets see their website here. 

 

 

BOOK REVIEW: 50 Queers Who Changed the World

50 Queers Who Changed the World:

A celebration of LGBTQ+ icons

Dan Jones

Featuring beautifully illustrated of 50 Queers Who Changed the World, this smart book is a tribute to LGBTQI inspirational people from history.   We Queers are some of the coolest folk in history. The books looks at Freddie Mercury, Virginia Woolf, Laverne Cox, Harvey Milk and Audre Lorde (and 45 others)  all who have made an unforgettable impact. Queer subculture has had an enormous influence on style, music, art and literature – the queer community were often in the vanguard of style, change and social progress.

From Oscar Wilde, who defended his homosexual relationships in court, to RuPaul acting as an ambassador for drag on network television, queer people have fought to express their identities and make a difference. This book celebrates the lives, work and unique perspectives of the icons that changed our world.

Elegantly illustrated and packaged, these stories make inspirational reading and it’s just the most perfect coffee table book to show off.

Our now, for more info or to buy the book see here: 

BOOK REVIEW: Aphra Behn: A Secret Life by Janet Todd

Aphra Behn: A Secret Life

Janet Todd

This book look at the astonishing life, work and history of Aphra Behn: 17th century dramatist, poet, novelist, political propagandist, bisexual writer, and spy.  Virginia Woolf  said of Behn ‘All women together ought to let flowers fall on the tomb of Aphra Behn…For it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”  Behn, a spy in the Netherlands and the Americas, was the first professional woman writer. The most prolific dramatist of her age, innovative novelist, translator, lyrical and erotic poet, she expresses a frank sexuality addressing courting and loving ladies, orgasm and bisexuality, whilst serving as political propagandist for the monarch.

This revised biography of the extraordinary, ground-breaking writer is set in conflict-ridden England, Europe, and in the mismanaged slave colonies, following the Puritan republic in 1660.  Behn is emblematic of the Restoration period, a time of masks and self-fashioning. Tod’s writing is as appealing as her research is remarkable and the books bounces along at a delightful pace while scrutinizing  serious issues in a time of extreme political, social and religious upheaval.

Janet Todd is a novelist and internationally renowned scholar, known for her non-fiction feminist works on women writers. She is an expert in her field and has published books on Mary Wollenstonecraft, Jane Austen and now this much anticipated paper back edition of her superb book on Aphra Behn.

Buy the book here

BOOK REVIEW: Fathomless Riches by Rev Richard Coles

Fathomless Riches: Or How I Went From Pop to Pulpit 

by Reverend Richard Coles

Fathomless Riches is the Reverend Richard Coles’s warm, witty and wise memoir in which he divulges with brutal, searing honesty and intimacy his haj from a rock-and-roll life of sex and drugs in the Communards to one devoted to God and Christianity and TV punditry.

He’s very honest in this book, deliciously waspishly candid about his life and I found it encouraging that he tells us some shocking stories of his arrogance, lies & deception and grand indulgences that he’s had the miss/fortune to take part in they are also placed with care alongside some very funny anecdotes that made me laugh out loud, he’s a very imperfect man but his blunt honesty charmed me, even when his odd reluctance to call the church out more on it’s institutional failings and cruelty annoyed me.  His ego is a constant companion too, but then this is his memoir and the gent has lived a large proportion of his life out in the spot light or glitter ball, so i can forgive this, his brutal honestly about his own failings more than makes up for that.

His life has been framed by the AIDS epidemics and there are some awful moments that  recall the horror of those years. His telling of the losses and horror, madness and confusion of those times will be familiar to a lot of people, again he does it with a candid vigour that bears witness to the suffering but also to the desperate times they were, the urgent push for some kind of meaning rescued from the pandemic.

However there’s no doubting this book is a wonderful headlong lurch from one world to another with a candid enquiring mind in the driving seat and well worth the read.  Part confession, part damnation this very modern memoir impresses. The result is one of the most unusual and readable life stories of recent times, and has the power to shock as well as to console. A wonderful book and one worth smuggling into the daily mail reading family members book pile at Xmas just to watch their faces when they read it…ha ha.  It’s got that jolly vicar off the tellybox on the front, what could possibly go wrong……

Coles is my new favorite person i want to get stuck in a train carriage in a snow drift with, as long we’ve got a large bottle of rum and a digestive for the good Rev to dunk.

REVIEW: Living with Gods exhibition @British Museum

Living with gods
peoples, places 
and worlds beyond

British Museum

Beliefs in spiritual beings and worlds beyond nature are characteristic of all human societies. By looking at how people believe through everyday objects of faith, this exhibition provides a perspective on what makes believing a part of human behaviour.

Seeing how people believe, rather than considering what they believe, suggests that humans might be naturally inclined to believe in transcendent worlds and beings. Stories, objects, images, prayers, meditation and rituals can provide ways for people to cope with anxieties about the world, and help form strong social bonds. This in turn helps to make our lives well-ordered and understandable.

 

The exhibition includes objects of belief from societies around the world and through time. It begins with a remarkable 40,000-year-old mammoth ivory sculpture known as the Lion Man. Depicting a lion’s upper body on the lower half of a man; it is the oldest known image of a being that does not exist in nature. It is the earliest evidence we have of beliefs and practices, and shows humans’ unique ability to communicate what’s in our minds through objects.

Encompassing almost all current world religious and posing as many questions as it answers this exhibition is interesting and likable although never feels startling or inspired wonder. Different parts of the exhibition look at objects that connect to an ethereal place or things like fire, water or light that have a role in beliefs

As always with these exhibitions it’s a mixed bag and with such a thrilling collection to draw on the British Museum always hits the target, there is very little fat here and the object are displayed with an elegant simplicity, very little explanation, some ( very subtle) ingenious lighting and no digital interactivity, which was refreshing.   It’s all white soothing billowing linen and ethereal musical noises like a Harry Potter heaven.

There’s been a run along BBC radio show about some of the objects on show but I was transfixed by some Japanese Ōnusa – Ritual Purification Wands, a hollowed log for the bones of the Yolngu people of Arnhem Land, Australia which I’d heard described but which shone with a luminous creativity when I saw it and a fun, jolly portrait of a cosmonaut saying ‘there is no god’ superimposed with some Russian Icons.  My favourite piece was woven a Tibetan Buddhist Thangka depicting the wheel of life, rich in detail and engaging my thoughts on many levels. Its teachings picked out in alarming and soothing images meant to inspire and communicate.

 

The exhibition has sacred and secular object that inspire or have inspired belief on show, some are simple some delightfully sophisticated, some ancient others brand new and created for the exhibition but they all hold the attention. We went along on Saturday lunchtime and it was easy to enjoy the objects without feeling too crowded out, always a pleasure.

There was a Miao coat, from South West China, called the ‘Hundred Bird Coat’ heavy with symbolism and a rather fetching picture of a bird embroidered into it. The symbols surrounding it were Sauwastika, the widdershins version of the more contentious (at least to a European audience) of the Swastika. It is a superb piece of embroidery. In the shop the image is reproduced on tote bag, tea towel, key ring etc. The usual rather tasteful items that one can buy in the rather erudite museum shop, but the Sauwastika have been replaced, by a rather sweet Greek meandros – exactly the same size and colour.

I asked the shop crew about this, they said it ‘was inspired by’ and not censored, but I left perturbed about why the image has been  changed in the first place, why not just take the bird out of the image. If one of our premier cultural institutions doesn’t feel able to hold a conversation about image, icon and symbolism – and how they have been used or misused historically- then where are we to have those conversations and who will arms us and inform us in the necessary counter narratives to groups less sensitive to criticism and keener to twist our understanding of the past.

It would have been easy  for the museum to choose some other of the wonderful objects to use on tote or tea-towel but I left wondering not about the ability to believe, but about censorship, commercial interest and the subtle changing of image to suit. A belief system is defined by the behavior that flows from it, perhaps this was the point, to think about the objects, how and where they were made but not the why – which seemed to completely pass me by.

Until 8th April

Ticketed

For more information see the British Museum website here

BOOK REVIEW: Grindr Survivr by Andrew Londyn

Grindr Survivr:

How to Find Happiness in the Age of Hookup Apps.

Andrew Londyn

Imagine Grindr/Scruff/Tinder/BarebackRT etc. offered opportunities to actually connect with people rather than just fuck.  App culture has radically transformed how the gay community interacts, and while “dating” has become easier, it seems as if finding anything of substance has become impossible. Londyn posits that we are just surviving apps like Grindr.

Grindr Survivr:  gives some practical insight in to how to cope and flourish in the app’mosphere  and also points out the behavioural change that’s underway whether we like it or not.  Londyn suggests we can change it. We have done it before in other situations, but we need to look at ourselves, our behaviour patterns and our community and resolve to transform all of them.

The second part, which is probably the most important, discusses the “Gay Commandments” that every gay man should live by if Grindr users want to find relationships of substance (or even merely stop suffering and worrying about what happens online). The Gay Commandments aren’t preachy at all, but rather they are a call to interject a moral baseline into online behavior – but all the while the book gives honest and humorous anecdotes from his own personal dating experience. The author’s not afraid to reveal his own failings in order to help readers learn from his mistakes. The Gay Commandments also include numerous “action points” that are designed to give readers new insights and new results (rather than just stating an overwhelming problem and not giving you anything to do about it). Readers will recognise themselves in the author’s  wry perspectives on gay dating.

Londyn encourages  Grindr users to follow the “Gay Commandments: practical not preachy and the author is candid enough to share his own experiences,  awful, ludicrous, funny and bad and his frank learning from his mistakes which led to their development.

The final part of the book contains basic tips, guidelines and recommendations for online behavior and first dates. It contains help in spotting fake profiles and contains a veritable list of do’s and don’t’s for early dating.

Dating apps are here to stay. It’s time to stop surviving these apps and start using them to thrive.  This book provides an honest, intuitive and funny way to gain control of these rampant caustic apps and harness their latent potential for good.

For more info or to buy the book see here: 

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