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Gay tetraplegic remains ‘trapped’ in second floor council flat

October 11 marks twelve months since we reported the plight of Robert Carver, a gay man living in Hove, suffering from a degenerating life limiting condition.

Robert Carver
Robert Carver

For the last six years, Robert Carver 32, has been living in temporary council accommodation. His second floor one bedroom flat is accessed by 28 steps but has no lift. During the last 12 months his condition has continued to deteriorated considerably, and the illness now affects his speech considerably.

Robert told Gscene at the time: “I am a paraplegic, with no use or feeling in either of my legs. I started suffering from this disease five years ago. The disease is so rare that a formal accurate diagnosis is not available, but is most likely to have been caused by a brain virus.”

For the past three years, Robert has been unable to walk or use his legs and remains “trapped” in his second floor, temporary council accommodation, with a steep, narrow staircase, which is clearly totally unsuitable for the needs of someone who cannot use their legs.

When Robert has to leave the flat for hospital appointments he is dragged across the floor by his carer and bounced down the steep staircase, often hurting himself in the process.

When he returns to the flat after medical appointments, he has to be pulled step by step up the stairs, by his carer then dragged across the floor because the flat is too small to accommodate the use of a wheelchair.

Robert’s situation was originally brought to public attention when ITV Meridan ran a news story about Robert’s plight on October 12, 2016.

A spokesperson for Brighton & Hove City Council at the time said: “We are aware that Mr. Carver’s condition has deteriorated and we also recognise that his current accommodation is unsuitable. We’ve recently acquired some emergency accommodation with wheel chair adapted units and were hoping to move him in on an interim basis in the next couple of weeks. Unfortunately there is an acute shortage of accommodation available that is suitable for his needs.”

Following that statement Robert was offered a property in Whitehawk which was not wheelchair accessible and said to be unsuitable for Robert by his occupational therapist and a studio flat in Windsor Court that had no second bedroom for a carer and described as unsuitable for housing vulnerable people by Caroline Lucas the MP for Brighton Pavilion.

Larissa Reed
Larissa Reed

Larissa Reed, Brighton & Hove Council’s Executive Director for Neighbourhoods, Communities & Housing, acknowledged to Meridian News on September 22, 2017 that Mr Carver had “significant care needs” but that the Council had been “clear all along” that his care needs don’t mean that he should have a two bedroom flat to accommodate his carer and they want “to work with Mr Carver to find him a suitably adapted one bedroom property.”

Meanwhile Mr Carver, who is HIV positive, is incontinent and needs round the clock care. As of July 26, 2017 he has been diagnosed by his consultant clinical psychologist as suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder which relates to his neurological presentation with this diagnosis. In his medical opinion, the consultant recommends the best way forward is to rehouse Mr Carver in a two bedroom property with 24 hour care to support his needs, an assessment Mr Carver’s occupational therapist, specialist nurse, GP and hospital consultants all agree with.

The next stage in the campaign to get Mr Carver rehoused into suitable accommodation comes on October 11, when his case will be raised in the House of Commons.

In the meantime Mr Carver and his supporters have set up a charity called Still Human UK to help people in similar situations challenge similar injustices.

For more information and to make a donation to the charity, click here:

Darth Vader helps to raise over £1,800 at The Sussex Beacon’s Summer Fete

On Saturday, September 9, HIV charity, The Sussex Beacon held a Summer Fete in its garden on Bevendean Road, Brighton raising £1,829.34 to help people living with HIV.

Darth Vader and other Star Wars characters joined the fun as The UK Garrison, one of the leading Star Wars costume groups made an appearance.

Simon Dowe
Simon Dowe

Simon Dowe, Chief Executive of The Sussex Beacon, said: “Over £1,800 is an incredible total, which will all go directly towards our vital work supporting people living with HIV. Huge thanks go to everyone who came on the day – the entertainers, staff, volunteers and those who helped out by baking cakes. I didn’t think I’d ever find myself chatting over a cup of tea with Darth Vader, but it turns out he’s a nice guy when it comes to supporting a good cause!”

Stalls at the fete included traditional favourites including a coconut shy, hook a duck, whack-a-rat, face painting, a tombola and a raffle. As well as photo opportunities in the afternoon with the Star Wars characters, there was also entertainment from David Hill, David Raven and Keris Lea.

The Sussex Beacon provides specialist support and care for people living with HIV through both inpatient and outpatient services. It helps hundreds of people living with HIV in Sussex each year and was rated ‘outstanding’ by the Care Quality Commission in September 2017.

For more information about The Sussex Beacon, click here:

 

BOOK REVIEW: He’s Always Been My Son by Janna Barkin

He’s Always Been My Son

A Mother’s Story about Raising Her Transgender Son

Janna Barkin

This inspiring and moving story, told with great passion and gentle humour gives us the inside story of an extraordinary family. Barkin’s engaging and entertaining prose allows us to gather first-hand experience, frustrations, learning, insight and humour as they recount the emotional and uplifting journey of raising a transgender son.

Janna Barkin’s family has come a long way since their child, Amaya, first told them he was a boy and not a girl and this charming memoir charts the family’s experiences of raising Amaya, from birth through to adulthood.

The book shows us how it’s not just the parenting; but the friends, family, wider community and people living shared lives that all contribute to raising healthy and happy adults.  The books has may different points of view with chapters from Amaya’s grandparents, family and friends sharing personal stories of the support  and learning shared by the wider community and family.

Barkin wisely then brings all this learning and discoveries her family has encountered and provides a ‘care package’ of advice for families facing similar issues. There is a glossary of terms and a list of hand-picked support sources.

Written with warmth and humour, ‘He’s Always Been My Son’ reminds us to accept others for who they are, guiding us in how to support the development of young people into their full adult potential and will offer support and inspire anyone who reads it. Barkins’ story of her family and their adventures in life is wonderfully warm, fun and has a simple clear honesty about it that all parents will be able to connect wit. It’s a balance: the soft unconditional care of motherhood with the gentle academic sifting of hard granite truths from conventional (and unconventional) wisdom that allow gender questioning folk to construct their own firm foundations in life, elicit their own solutions to the problems presented to them and learn from this educator teaching from experience.

As she says herself in her heart-warming, shrewd and candid blog

I feel called to tell our story. Making the decision to go public was a challenging one. I certainly don’t want to put my son, myself, or anyone in danger. But I know my silence would not make the world safer for transgender people. My silence would not provide comfort to other parents, nor tell them they are not alone. And it’s more than that: by sharing our stories, we can give voice to the voiceless. Our family is fortunate for what we have, for where we live, and we are grateful. We have the strong support of our extended family and a wide circle of friends, a great number of loved ones who fully accept our transgender child. We have good jobs and good medical coverage. We are white. We live in an accepting community.

I am humbled to remember every day that not everyone shares these privileges.

Janna’s website is a warm and welcoming place for other parents to lean and use the collated resource’s that they have found over the last few years, although it has a continental USA bias (as the family are American). The info, advice and guidance work for all parents; it’s simple, loving and considerate.

Out now, paperback or e-book. 

£12.99

For more info or to buy the book see the publisher’s website here

 

 

 

Comedy at Dr Brightons for Rainbow Fund!

Smiley Sunday, a brilliant night of laughter and comedy is back at Doctor Brightons for its ninth outing on Sunday, October 8.

On the night there will be a fabulous raffle and happy hour prices at the bar all night as well as the buy 1 get 1 free cocktail deal!

There will be truly unmissable line-up of funny folk to entertain you! Including:

♦ William Stone
♦ Daniel Searle
♦ Karen Blott
♦ Tom Smith
♦ Josie Ellis
♦ Jen Ives

Headliner is Linda Larkin and the evening will be compered by Dave Fensome!


Event: Smily Sunday 9

Where: Dr Brightons,

When: Sunday October 8

Time: 7.30pm- 10.30pm

Cost: £3

Billboard advert homophobically abused in Washington DC

A billboard advert for gay hook-up app Squirt.org has been subject to an act of homophobic vandalism in Washington, DC.

The poster, which was located on the platform of Shaw-Howard University Station of the Washington Metropolitan Area Transit Authority, depicts two clothed men, one of whom has his arm around the other. The culprit defaced the image of the two men, placing rifle scope marks on their foreheads. They also wrote the word “gay” on one of the men’s arms, and a gay slur on the other.

Attila Szatmari, Digital Business Director for Squirt.org’s parent company, Pink Triangle Press, said: “We have never experienced this kind of homophobic vandalism on our billboards before.

“This is our first campaign in Washington, DC since the Trump administration came to power and it is very sad to see the change in behaviour. It seems that some people feel that it is okay to spread homophobic messages. The Trump Administration needs to work on uniting America and making sure that people feel safe, regardless of their sexual orientation, race, or religious beliefs.”

This isn’t the first instance of vandalism faced by Squirt.org posters. In 2016, a video surfaced of an ex-marine in Miami shattering the glass on a transit shelter to remove and destroy an ad for the company. It is, however, the first time slurs have been written across the posters.

As of yet no one has taken responsibility for the incident. The campaign will run until October 1 and Squirt.org intends to continue to advertise across the United States, including Washington, DC.

Brighton Pride 2017 smash fundraising target

Brighton & Hove Pride raised a magnificent £147,263.74 for good causes at Pride 2017.

This record amount will be distributed as grants by the Rainbow Fund, the Pride Social Impact Fund and a new Pride Community Fund.

Headlined by Pet Shop Boys and Year & Years, Pride 2017 has been universally hailed as the biggest and best Brighton Pride to date, with Sussex Police and Brighton & Hove City Council estimating there were 400,000 people celebrating Pride in the city over Pride weekend.

The FREE Pride Community Parade attracted approximately 300,000 participants and spectators to the city centre, with almost 100,000 people attending Pride ticketed events and Southern Railways reporting over 100,000 people passing through Brighton train station.

Image: Chris Jepson
Image: Chris Jepson

This year Brighton & Hove Pride cost organisers over £1.8million to deliver, bringing in approximately £18million to the local economy with visitors spending money on accommodation, retail, food and drink across the Pride weekend.

All money raised by Pride from ticket sales goes directly to the operational and running costs of producing the Pride Festival, Pride Community Parade, Pride Village Party and the Pride Fundraising programme through the Rainbow Fund, a Brighton and Hove based grant-giving fund for local LGBT/HIV organisations, the Pride Social Impact Fund (SIF) and the new Pride Community Fund.

SIF was created in 2015 so that businesses that benefit from Pride could contribute to community groups and local good causes across the City. It is independently run and chaired by journalist, Tim Ridgway with representatives from the The Argus, Brighton & Hove Independent, Latest 7, G Scene and BBC Sussex on the grants panel.

Paul Kemp
Paul Kemp

Paul Kemp, Director of Brighton and Hove Pride, said: “We are immensely grateful for the support of everyone who purchased tickets for the official Pride events as well as our sponsors and local supporting businesses all who have helped us raise this record amount of Pride community fundraising. One of the biggest elements of Pride is the Free Pride Community Parade which attracted almost 300,000 participants and spectators, many of who spend money with local businesses across the City.

“We really want local businesses across the City to benefit from the Pride weekend but, apart from contributions from venues within the Village Party zone, there has been a disappointing amount of support locally. Prior to Pride we sent over 2,000 letters by post to local businesses who benefit from the bumper Pride weekend inviting them to support Pride’s fundraising for the Social impact Fund but, to date, no support has been forthcoming.

“Pride is a great event promoting the whole city to a national and international audience, but it’s also about community and responsibility and surely this should be shared by everyone who benefits from the weekend and Pride hope more businesses will help with the fundraising effort in the future.”

Chris Gull
Chris Gull

Chris Gull, Chair of Rainbow Fund, said: “Once again Paul Kemp, Dulcie Weaver and the team organising Pride have proved that it is truly A Pride With Purpose.

Once again the total from the £1 from each Park Ticket sold, and £1 from each Pride Village Party wristband sold, together with money collected on the parade route, and fundraising events over the weekend, exceeded the astounding amounts raised in the last three years. It seems impossible that, in a terms of funds raised, this event has gone from raising NO money for local charities for several years before Paul Kemp and Dulcie Weaver took over, to topping £100,000 this year alone.
“The Rainbow Fund is proud that Pride entrusts these funds raised within our community to us in order to distribute to local groups and organisations who support our local LGBT+ and HIV communities. The Rainbow Fund has no overheads, and no paid staff, so every penny donated will go to where it will do the most good. 
“On behalf of those who will benefit directly from these funds…Thank you Pride..and well done!”
Tim Ridgeway
Tim Ridgeway

Tim Ridgway, chairman of the Brighton Pride Social Impact Fund, added: “In the last two years the fund has made a visible and very real difference to dozens of organisations across the city, who have all put a little bit of pride back into our city.

 “I want to thank everyone who has contributed towards raising this incredible amount of money and urge organisations across the Brighton and Hove to submit bids when the application process opens this month.”

This year’s Pride community fund consists of £107,508.74 donated to the Rainbow Fund. The Social impact fund will have a total of £19,755.00 available to distribute in grants for 2017 including £5,140.00 rolled over from 2016 and the new Pride Community Fund has £20,000 allocated for Special Pride Grants.

Rainbow Fund Grants for local LGBT+ community groups will be announced at the Rainbow Fund Grants Awards 2017 at the Brighton Hilton Metropole on October 16.

Applications for Pride SIF Grants open on October 1, 2017 with successful applicants being announced in December.

For information on applications and how to apply for a SIF grant, click here:

PREVIEW: Stereophonics play Brighton Centre on February 27

One of Britain’s greatest live bands Stereophonics will embark on a major UK arena tour in February 2018 following the release their new album Scream Above The Sounds. They play Brighton Centre on Tuesday, February 27.

Twenty years after their debut Word Gets Around; Stereophonics tenth studio album released on October 27 via Parlophone Records follows Keep The Village Alive which went straight to number one when it was released in 2015 and became their sixth chart-topper after Performance and Cocktails (1999), Just Enough Education To Perform (2001) You Gotta Go There To Come Back (2003), Language. Sex. Violence. Other? (2005) and Pull The Pin (2007).

Scream Above The Sounds was primarily recorded in the band’s HQ in west London with a further session at RAK Studios.  Created with the help of regular collaborator Jim Lowe, it’s an album in which creative sonic touches add to the band’s emphasis on songwriting and melody.

Scream Above The Sounds will be released on digital (standard and deluxe), CD (standard and deluxe) and vinyl formats.

It’s available to pre-order from http://www.stereophonics.com with new singles Caught By The Wind and All In One Night provided as an instant downloads.

As one of Britain’s best live bands Stereophonics have been touring and performing to sell-out crowds across the globe. This summer alone they headlined Kendal Calling, Y Not Festival and Victorious Festival plus took to the stage at BBC 2 Live In Hyde Park last weekend.

Tickets go on sale at 9am, on Friday, September 22 via www.gigsandtours.com, www.ticketmaster.co.uk and www.stereophonics.com

 

Greater Fort Lauderdale hosts global ‘Think Tank’

The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau (GFLCVB) held its inaugural Global LGBT+ Think Tank on September 17-18 at The Riverside Hotel in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Fort-Lauderdale: Downtown Pink Bridge Riverwalk

Fourteen leaders from corporate and leisure travel companies came together for the first time to discuss the next steps to improve the LGBT+ travel experience.

“We’re really excited about the opportunities and trends discovered by this esteemed group of thought leaders. Together we can work towards shaping a more respectful and inclusive future in global tourism,” said Richard Gray, vice president, LGBT+ market for the Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau. “Leveraging insights from the Greater Fort Lauderdale LGBT+ Think Tank will be essential for growing LGBT+ travel globally. This historic sharing of minds and vision was unprecedented and clearly needed, so we are happy to announce the Think Tank will take place again next year.”

Participating travel experts included:
♦  Diane Anderson-Minshall – Editor in Chief, The Advocate
♦  Alexis Dee – President, Southern Comfort Transgender Conference
♦  Rick Fowler – VP, Meetings & Education, National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce
♦  Vicky Garcia – Chief Operating Officer, Cruise Planners
♦  Richard Gray – VP, LGBTQ, Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau
♦  Jeff Guaracino – President & CEO, Welcome America
♦  Jacob Huang – Corporate Program Director, Aibai Culture & Education Center
♦  Gregg Kaminsky – Founder and President, rFamily Vacations
♦  Billy Kolber – Publisher, Man About World
♦  Anders Lindstrom – Director of Communications, Norwegian Air Lines
♦  David Nelson – Senior Portfolio Analyst and Chairman of LGBT+ Employee Resource Group (ERG), Royal Caribbean
♦  Tom Roth, President, Community Marketing & Insights
♦  Charlie Rounds – Program Director, Mossier
♦  Bob Witeck – President, Witeck Communications

The Think Tank leaders identified where LGBT+ travellers will be going in the next five to 10 years, how best to reach them, and how to identify their needs. They also acknowledged the importance of identifying the diversity of the audience and how to address them.

“I’m proud of Royal Caribbean and what we’ve been able to accomplish with our diversity and sensitivity training, and we are always looking for additional ways to reach our LGBT+ employees and guests,” said David Nelson, senior portfolio analyst and chairman of LGBT+ Employee Resource Group (ERG) at Royal Caribbean. “We have discovered great opportunities at the Think Tank to build relationships and to collaborate with thanks to the Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau’s global lead in the LGBT+ platform.”

China is the world’s largest LGBT+ travel market. Jacob Huang, corporate program director at Aibai Culture & Education Center in China, brought the Chinese perspective to the Think Tank.

“I’ve been working on LGBT+ travel issues for several years, and I’m really happy that I had the opportunity to participate in this global exchange of ideas,” he said. “Greater Fort Lauderdale is a destination that would have great appeal to the LGBT+ communities in China because of the large LGBT+ scene and because it is home to Sawgrass Mills, one of the world’s largest outlet malls.”

Travel safety proved to be the main concern at the Think Tank. The group also agreed that the LGBT+ market needs to be better integrated into mainstream marketing across the globe.

During the discussion, the importance of employee resource groups (ERG) was highlighted. These ERGs can be an asset to corporations as to where their LGBT+ employees feel comfortable traveling to. In addition, the group shared LGBT+ allies’ position on travelling to areas that are diverse and supportive of the community.

“We cannot forget that travel doesn’t just mean leisure travel, but it means corporate meetings and incentives,” said Charlie Rounds, program director at Mossier. “The goal is to make destinations more inclusive. Greater Fort Lauderdale has shown to be a clear leader in this, and will continue to do so in the future.”
 

The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau has been proactively targeting and welcoming the LGBT+ market since 1996, when it became the first Convention & Visitors Bureau with a gay-centric vacation planner, and dedicated website on a CVB homepage.

Since then, the destination has continued to break down barriers and facilitate essential visibility for the LGBT+ communities at large.

The destination now welcomes 1.5 million LGBT+ travellers annually, who spend $1.5 billion. It also features one of the largest Pride Centers in the country, the first and only World AIDS Museum and Education Center, and is home to the Stonewall National Museum & Archives, one of the only permanent spaces in the U.S. devoted to exhibitions relating to LGBT+ history and culture.

UNI-FORM revolutionises homophobia, biphobia and transphobia reporting

Galop, the LGBT+ anti-violence charity together with international partners will launch a hate crime reporting website and mobile app on September 28.

The scheme, named UNI-FORM will allow people to report homophobic, biphobic and transphobic hate crimes online. It will be functional across the UK, Portugal, Spain, Belgium, Malta, Hungary, Latvia, Estonia and Lithuania.

UNI-FORM is the only international online reporting tool that is specific for hate crimes targeting LGBT+ people. It can be used by victims, witnesses and any other person who wants to report homophobia, biphobia or transphobia. UK reports will be received by Galop, recorded and passed to the police at the reporting person’s request.

Nick Antjoule, Galop’s Hate Crime Manager, said: “Too often people feel coerced into silence by prejudice, intimidation and violence. We are encouraging people to take a stand against hatred by speaking up when they see prejudice and to seek help if they experience it”.

Why is this Important?

Homophobic, biphobic and transphobic abuse is a problem in the UK and globally, though very little is ever reported to authorities.

Galop’s National LGBT Hate Crime Report (2016) found:

♦      4 in 5 LGBT people had experienced hate crime during their lifetime

♦      Just 1 in 4 LGBT people reported the last hate crime they experienced

♦     1 in 4 LGBT people had experienced physical assault as part of a hate crime (25%).

One Bisexual man interviewee revealed: “I was in a park… and two men asked for a light. We were attacked by a group of six other men, who began to kick, punch and stab us. They shouted homophobic abuse and kicked my head like a football”.

Galop hopes this innovative new pan London reporting scheme and closer collaboration will build a robust evidence base that will raise awareness, increase the level of understanding and will lead to an improved response of authorities across Europe.

For more information about GALOP, click here:

London to Brighton cycle team raise £575 for Sussex Beacon

On Sunday, September 17, a team from HIV charity The Sussex Beacon tackled the ‘Do it for Charity’ London to Brighton cycle ride, raising over £575 to help people living with HIV in Sussex.

Joshua Long, Mark Beadle and Sam Beadle tackled the challenge, cycling 54 miles from Clapham Common in London to Brighton sea front. The toughest part of the ride, Ditchling Beacon, was a mile-long uphill climb to the top of the South Downs. Joshua completed the course in less than four hours.

Jason Warriner
Jason Warriner

Jason Warriner, Clinical Services Director at The Sussex Beacon, said: “Having done this race myself last year, I know exactly how tough it is! We’re really grateful to Joshua, Mark and Sam for taking it on and for collecting hundreds in sponsorship. All the money raised will go towards supporting people living with HIV, many of whom are going through an incredibly difficult time. Donations like this allow the team at The Sussex Beacon to be there for them when they need us most.”

The Sussex Beacon provides specialist support and care for people living with HIV through both inpatient and outpatient services. It helps hundreds of people living with HIV in Sussex each year and was rated ‘outstanding’ by the Care Quality Commission in September.

For further information about The Sussex Beacon, click here:

visit www.sussexbeacon.org.uk

 

 

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