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Who’s the boss behind the bar @Amsterdam Bar and Kitchen?

Morgan Fabulous chats with Tony Lupton, one-third of the business trio who now run The Amsterdam Bar and Kitchen on Marine Parade.

Tony grew up in Hammersmith, London, and arrived in Brighton six years ago via Suffolk where he lived and worked for five years.

He took over the Amsterdam in January this year with his two business partners, dropping its previous name ‘A Bar’ and renaming it The Amsterdam Bar and Kitchen’. The bar is open to everybody and offers a welcoming, friendly environment to relax in whatever the time of day.

When the management changed in January so did the decor. They brightened the interior up with new lighting and a fresher feel. Outside they are continuing to do work on the terrace, with new plants and lighting to make it a more inviting place to sit and take in the sun. The large terrace is without a doubt one of the best places on Brighton seafront to spend a summer’s afternoon, or hot summers night sipping a G&T from their Gin menu which supports local brands, and ideal if you are a smoker.

Even though the venue has been part of Brighton’s gay scene for a long time now, the new refurbishment gives the bar a fresh feel and continues to be a vibrant and welcoming part of the Brighton scene.

With drag acts, karaoke and quiz nights The Amsterdam Bar and Kitchen welcomes all clientele from local glitterati to out-of-town hen parties! They also offer the venue up for charity events and are currently selling fabulous sparkling t-shirts, which are great for pride, in aid of the Sussex Beacon and planning charity events for the future.

As is the case with many people in the hospitality trade, Tony was drawn in by the social aspect of the job and loves getting to know his customers and meeting new people.

After a career in advertising, he was asked to run the hospitality sector in a film studio at Twickenham Film Studios. He went on to run a pub in rural Suffolk before moving to Brighton where he managed The Farm Cafe in the North Lanes with business partner Chris, who is now also his business partner at the Amsterdam Bar and Kitchen along with Pete the chef.

Tony’s says his biggest achievement has been losing weight, and he now tries to keep as fit and healthy as possible. He enjoys exercise and walking his dogs and has made sure The Amsterdam Bar and Kitchen is very dog friendly!

His favourite drink is Gin and tonic (with Tom Cat – my favourite local gin!), his favourite movie is Personal Services with Julie Waters and his favourite book is Cynthia Payne’s  autobiography An English Madam.

Bear-Patrol thank outgoing Mayor for his support

Bear-Patrol, the social networking group held a reception at the Old Ship Hotel last month to thank the outgoing Mayor of Brighton & Hove, in the final days of his terms of office, for his support of the group during his year in office.

Cllr Peter West and his partner Geraldine were presented with a framed photo taken by photographer Nick Ford of the Mayor in his official robes of office.

Cllr West thanked the guests for their support with his own fundraising activities during his year in office and thanked Bear Patrol for inviting him to their fundraising events in 2016-17.

The reception was made possible with the kind support of the management team of the Old Ship Hotel.

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Accessible toilet facility returns to Brighton Pride with Accessibility Matters

Last summer hundreds of people used the Access Facilities at Brighton Pride delivered by the volunteers of the Brighton & Hove LGBT Community Safety Forum through their Accessibility Matters initiative.

Working in partnership with Brighton Pride, Accessibility Matters has made significant progress in ensuring the event is accessible to everyone.

A favourite facility of recent years has been the High Dependency Unit (HDU)

Many people are expected to use these facilities again this summer and LGBT+ people who otherwise would feel unable to access the event are now able to do so with confidence.

Billie Lewis, Chair of the LGBT Community Safety Forum, said: “The HDU provided by Mobiloo will play a significant role within the community area at Preston Park ensuring that those who need our support the most will get it. It will also change the way people access their Pride on the day. The facility at the Access Tent will draw different people together again this year. We have changed the provider of the HDU this year to ensure we offer the best service with recognition for value for money and sustainability.”

Why do we need Mobiloo?

Mobiloo is a new product to the market, offering a safe and clean changing and toilet facility to meet the needs of all disabled people (and their Carers or Personal Assistants), within a mobile van.

Most disabled people want to live life no differently from anyone else. They want to be able to go shopping, enjoy the countryside, go out to eat, work, and enjoy life, but they live in a world designed primarily for people without physical impairments.

For many disabled people adequate toilet facilities are an important factor when planning a day out. If they cannot walk or stand, they may still be unable to use even the standard specialist accessible toilets that are sometimes provided. They may need support from one or two carers or personal assistants to use the toilet or to have their incontinence pad changed. Standard specialist accessible toilets rarely provide changing tables or hoists.

The absence of appropriate facilities can impact on whole families. Social activities and days out have to be planned down to the smallest detail to fit around a stop at suitable changing facilities or to get back home after only a few hours. The most intrepid may have ventured out to festivals or camping trips – but then often have to find a discreet area in a field or a dirty toilet floor instead of the dignified facilities we should all be entitled to.

Mobiloo recognises this gap in provision for disabled people. Its unique, mobile facility offers the right of access to the more rural locations, festivals, activities and events across the UK.

Accessibility Matters are currently working with Brighton Pride to ensure more accessible toilets are available across the Festival Park.

For Access questions, you can email access@lgbt-help.com. Please note that these contact details are for access issues regarding facilities for the deaf, blind, disabled and older Pride attendees only.

Other Pride related info such as stalls/vendors, road closures, act line ups and bus information cannot be answered here.

For all other pride related info visit here or email info@brighton-pride.org

To register for the Accessibility Matters Pride Access Plan please visit lgbt-help.com

For Access Tickets for the Brighton Pride Festival, on Saturday August 5, 2017, click here:

Men for Men, Man Monday special at Queens Arms

Davina Sparkle hosts a fun, raunchy, sexy show with three of her gorgeous hunks doing the full monty in the intimate surrounds of the Queens Arms.

A brilliant fun show, raunchy and very sexy with three of the largest strippers in the biz; Papa Bear Marshall, top Stripper TITUS (Gladiator) Rowe, and Black Mamba, the one and only Paul Grant.

Join them for a LARGE fun and naked show behind closed doors at the Queens Arms.

Ticket only event. Tickets £10 from the Queens Arms


Davina Sparkle
Davina Sparkle

Event: MEN FOR MEN, Man Monday Special hosted by Davina Sparkle

Where: Queens Arms, George Street, Brighton

When: Monday, July 3

Time: From 8.30pm

Cost: £10 ticket only event

To book tickets by card telephone 01273 725 331

Please note new opening hours at the Queens Arms:  Tuesday-Thursday from 5pm-late, Friday, Saturday and Sunday from noon-late. 

 

OPINION: Why being transgender was irrelevant in my General Election 2017 campaign

As I stood on stage, a room full of expectant people looking up at me I was totally focused on the next words that I would hear. “Sophie Rose Cook, Labour Party, 20,882.”

Sophie Cook, Labour Candidate for East Worthing & Shoreham

In the space of five short weeks we’d achieved the seemingly impossible, taking a previously safe Tory seat and making it a marginal, increasing the Labour vote by 114% with one of the biggest swings in the country at 19.8%.

At the start of the general election campaign no one gave the Labour Party a chance, both nationally and here in East Worthing & Shoreham.

The constituency had always been blue and the Tory incumbent, Tim Loughton, had been the MP for 20 years.

He felt safe and secure that no one could ever challenge him, and I’m sure that the selection of a little known transgender TV presenter as the Labour candidate only added to the feeling that he would increase his 15,000 majority.

My selection caused a few waves, I was told that “this isn’t Brighton” and that the people of the constituency wouldn’t warm to a transgender candidate.

The press gave my campaign some coverage and despite being one of nine transgender candidates I was the one that got the most attention due to my profile from working in football and TV.

“Labour candidate could become first transgender MP” said one headline whilst another mentioned the fight for LGBT rights, “Trans activist is fighting to oust anti-LGBT Conservative politician.”

Being transgender and in the public eye I was already used to abuse, both online and in the real world. I’d been trolled by various groups including receiving death threats on Twitter and as I stepped into the political arena I was bracing myself for a renewed onslaught of hatred.

But then something unexpected happened.

Instead of the abuse I was greeted with love and support, sure there were still a few transphobic remarks online but nothing like I’d experienced previously.

I’d heard first hand accounts of trans people moving out of the constituency because of abuse and yet, when I started to talk to people, they responded with warmth and openness.

My gender identity that had hit the headlines around the world seemed to mean nothing to the constituents that I met, it was never mentioned on the doorsteps, the street stalls or the hustings. The only people who made it an issue were the press, not the voters. They listened to the policies, my ideas, passion and belief and they embraced me.

On June 8 nearly 21,000 of them chose to put their mark next to my name on the ballot paper.

They weren’t voting for a trans woman, they were voting for Sophie Cook, they were voting for the Labour Party. They saw beyond the headlines and the things that made us different and in their way struck a massive blow for trans equality.

We now have the most diverse parliament ever with 45 LGB MPs, I missed out on adding a T to that by 5000 votes.

We need transgender politicians, after all everyone in society needs to feel represented. But the main reason why I believe that the time is right for a trans MP has nothing to do with equality or diversity, it’s down to the constituents who put their faith in me to represent them, regardless of my gender identity.

Since the election I’ve spoken to hundreds of people who said that I’ve given them hope for the first time.

That feeling goes both ways, they saw that there is more that unites us than separates us, they saw a person rather than a label, and they too gave me hope for a brighter tomorrow.

 

First ever legal humanist wedding takes place in Northern Ireland

The first ever legal humanist wedding ceremony took place in Northern Ireland on Thursday, July 22.

Eunan O’Kane and Laura Lacole
Eunan O’Kane and Laura Lacole

Following a lengthy legal battle to secure recognition, Laura Lacole and Eunan O’Kane wed in a beautiful ceremony surrounded by friends and family and conducted by Humanists UK celebrant Isabel Russo.

On Monday, Laura and Eunan won the right to have their ceremony recognised through an order of the Court of Appeal. The decision followed on from a High Court ruling earlier this month that gave legal recognition to humanist marriages, a decision which has been appealed by Northern Ireland’s Attorney General, General Register Office, and Department of Finance. Humanists UK and its section Northern Ireland Humanists are supporting their case.

Model and public speaker Laura and Leeds United and Republic of Ireland midfielder Eunan’s wedding is the first legal humanist ceremony in Northern Ireland and the first in the UK outside of Scotland.

Andrew Copson, Humanists UK’s Chief Executive, present at the wedding, said: “Laura and Eunan’s wedding epitomises what marriages should be all about: beautiful, hand-crafted occasions that match perfectly to the deepest beliefs and values. It has been a lovely occasion that has been a joy for all in attendance. We hope it proves to be the first of many such legal humanist ceremonies.”

About humanist weddings
A humanist wedding is a non-religious ceremony that is deeply personal and conducted by a humanist celebrant. It differs from a civil wedding in that it is entirely hand-crafted and reflective of the humanist beliefs and values of the couple, conducted by a celebrant who shares their beliefs and values.

Legal recognition has already had a transformative effect on Scottish and Irish society. In Scotland, humanist marriages gained legal recognition in 2005, and have risen in number from 85 in the first year to over 4,300 in 2015, overtaking the Church of Scotland in the process. In the Republic of Ireland, humanist marriages gained legal recognition in 2012. In 2015 around six percent of legal marriages were humanist, more than three times as many as there were (Protestant) Church of Ireland marriages.

About the legal case
Laura and Eunan’s case is being taken on human rights grounds, targeting the discriminatory law that has meant that religious people are able to have legal marriage ceremonies in line with their beliefs, but humanists have, until now, not been able to do likewise.

While the decision on Monday means that they have now had a legal humanist ceremony, the wider question as to the future recognition of other humanist marriages in Northern Ireland has been stayed until a further Court of Appeal hearing on September 11. The High Court found on the June 9 that the ban on such marriages having recognition is discriminatory. This decision has not been overturned, but will be subject to the further hearing. Other couples will have to wait for the outcome of the case before finding out if they can have a similar ceremony.

 

Transport for London wraps up in rainbows for London Pride

Transport for London (TfL) is celebrating London Pride by transforming parts of the transport network with a new rainbow design, which has been created especially to raise awareness and show support for the LGBT+ communities, as part of a range of activities taking place this month.

♦ Tottenham Court Road Tube station features rainbow livery

♦ Rainbow roundels across three central London Tube stations

♦ Fifty Santander Cycles decorated with rainbow mudguards

♦ Rainbow flags at bus stops along the parade route

The bold new design highlighting #loveislove can be seen above the Oxford Street entrance of Tottenham Court Road station and has been incorporated into a number of rainbow roundels at Tottenham Court Road, Oxford Circus and Piccadilly Circus Tube stations.

Anyone hiring a Santander Cycle has the chance to ride on one of the fifty cycles that have been decorated with rainbow livery on their rear mudguards, demonstrating and celebrating how proud the capital is of its diversity.

On the day of the parade, TfL will also mark the occasion with rainbow flags at several bus stops, including two in the Charing Cross area which will be kept permanently after the Pride celebrations to serve as a symbol of the organisation’s support for the LGBT+ communities.

Sadiq Khan
Sadiq Khan

Sadiq Khan, Mayor of London, said: “Here in London, you’re free to love whoever you want to love and be whoever you want to be. That’s just one of the reasons why our city is seen as a beacon for the LGBT+ communities and has such a vibrant, thriving scene – one that is bursting with colour, and contributes hugely to the life and soul of London.

“As commuters make their way across the capital, they’ll be greeted by rainbow colours taking pride of place at Underground stations, bus stops and Santander Cycles around Soho, sending a strong message of support to London’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. This Pride, I look forward to celebrating the capital’s diversity and showing that London is open to all people, regardless of background, religion, race, gender, disability, age or sexuality.”

Ben Lyon, Chair of OUTbound, TfL’s LGBT+ Staff Network Group, said: “We are delighted to be part of the Pride celebrations by decorating the transport network with our beautiful rainbow design at Tube stations, bus stops and on bikes.  The capital is one of the most diverse cities in the world and we are extremely proud to be part of the message to the world that, whatever your sexual orientation, London is open and welcomes you.”

Sigga Sigurdardottir, Chief Innovation and Customer Officer at Santander, added: “London is a city that has long championed diversity and inclusion. We are really excited to be a part of the celebrations and hope that local residents and visitors to the city enjoy exploring London on one of our rainbow Santander Cycles.”

‘This is just one piece of activity we have planned to celebrate Pride. We have a host of other celebrations going on throughout the rest of UK, from taking part in Pride marches and decorating a number of branches to creating rainbow themed menus in our staff restaurants.”

This year’s initiatives build on TfL’s strong legacy of promoting Pride follow the installation of the diversity traffic signals last year and a range of rainbow-wrapped vehicles, including a London bus, black taxi and DLR train.

Sir Ian McKellen launches the new rainbow wrapped Santander Cycle for Pride.

BOOK REVIEW: Pride and Joy: A guide for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans parents by Sarah and Rachel Hagger-Holt

Pride and Joy: A guide for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans parents

Sarah and Rachel Hagger-Holt

There have always been lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans parents. But now there is a ‘gayby boom’. Changes in social attitudes, the law and medical technology mean that more LGBT people are becoming parents, and living proud and open family lives. Yet there are still few role models.

Pride and Joy is full of stories, advice and real-life experience from LGBT parents and their children. Sometimes funny, sometimes moving, sometimes surprising, every story sheds new light on what it’s like for LGBT people raising children in the UK and Ireland today.  All of them constructive, healthy and superbly loving families filled with honest appraisal and love.

Pride and Joy is positive and practical. Its inclusive and see’s things from a LGBT perspective, It covers everything from starting a family, dealing with schools, talking with children about different families, and maintaining an LGBT identity as a parent. The Hagger-Holt’s have done some serious research and interviews to ensure this book covers just about every aspect of LGBT* parenting, their consideration and breadth of experience shines through this book and the authors ability to condense and reflect complex ideas in an easy digestible way gives this book a clarity and simplicity of approach which allows the joy of parenting to stay the focus, and good parenting to be the aim.

This book is essential reading for anyone who wants to better understand issues facing LGBT families including parents or prospective parents; extended families and friends; and social workers, teachers and other professionals.  Superb.

Paperback

Out Now £11.99

For more info or to buy this book see the publishers website here: 

BOOK REVIEW: Spartacus: International Gay Guide 2017

Spartacus

International Gay Guide 2017

Spartacus is the gay travel bible − the bestselling and most comprehensive travel guide for gay men. This 46th edition features 21,000 addresses for 130 countries worldwide. So many gay facts! Hotels, clubs, bars, beaches, saunas, sex venues or the local gay information centre − you will find all this and plenty of local advice and insights into the local scene, the country, the people and up to date places to eat, shop or chat.

The listing describes each country in an extensive introductory text, including unique and important ( if you’re new to the place) cultural issues. Importantly, it offers information about the legal situation and safety for gays and lesbians in each of the countries listed in the guide, sourced from foreign embassies and LGBT+ activists/organizations around the world. The editorial team undertake extensive research to ensure the information is as reliable and up-to-date as possible.

Here’s their ‘shooting the cover’ gratuitous topless model video…

Published by the Bruno Gmunder with their usual attention to quality and detail, it’s an excellent research and travel resource. All in all it’s the physical guide for LGBT+ folks traveling our wonderful rainbow planet. Book includes full access to their on-line listing and the app.

Out now £14.99

Paperback

To buy the book or for more information see the publishers website here: 

PREVIEW: Showtime with Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus

Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus prepares to celebrate Brighton Pride in style with their new production, Showtime.

 

For its Pride show 2017 the Chorus has chosen a new format to showcase its talent and celebrate the rich diversity of musicals and show tunes.

Showtime will take centre stage on Friday July 28 and Saturday 29 in St George’s Church, Kemptown, Brighton.

Musical Director Marc Yarrow, said: “I’m so excited about Showtime. Musical Theatre is my true passion. When the Music Team and I selected the repertoire we decided to bring together numbers from classic shows such as: Les Miserable, Miss Saigon, South Pacific, Hair and Into The Woods.  But we also wanted to feature music from newer, West End and Broadway productions such as Book Of Mormons and Sister Act, and recognise less well-known gems like Lazarus. And of course, for a Pride Show, we couldn’t exclude crowd-pleasers from La Cage Aux Folles, Sound of Music and Hairspray.”

Brighton Pride Festival enjoys national and international prominence and popularity, and is recognised for its fundraising efforts on behalf of local charities. As part of the Brighton Pride Festival, Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus has once again chosen to support The Rainbow Fund, a Brighton and Hove based grant-giving fund for local LGBT and HIV/AIDS organisations, and will be donating £1 from each ticket sold to The Rainbow Fund as well as hosting a bucket collection for them on both evenings of Showtime.

Chris Gull, Chair of The Rainbow Fund, said: “We are delighted that BrightonGMC is, once again, donating money to The Rainbow Fund. This time it will be from their Pride show Showtime.

Chris Gull
Chris Gull

“This is a great example of community fundraising, and emphasises once again the crucial role that The Rainbow Fund has in acting as a responsible and transparent way for local fundraisers to ensure that the funds they raise go where they are needed, without having to make decisions about which of the local LGBT+ and HIV groups to support. This way they support them all.

“On behalf of these groups that provide such vital support right across our local LGBT+ and HIV communities, thank you to all the members of BrightonGMC for their support, and time and talent. It’s much appreciated.”

A week after Showtime the Chorus’s float will be joining the annual parade to help spread Pride’s message of Summer of Love in characteristically rousing, entertaining and colourful style.


Event: SHOWTIME with Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus

Where: St George’s Church, Kemptown, Brighton BN2 1ED

When: Friday July 28 and Saturday 29

Time: 7.30pm (door open 7pm)

Cost: £14 (£12 concessions)

To book tickets online, click here: or available at Prowler, St James Street, Brighton

Future Performances

♦      Pride Show • Friday July 28 and Saturday 29th, 2017 • St George’s Church, Brighton

♦      Hand In Hand LGBT Choir Festival • August 18 – 20 2017 • Manchester

♦      Christmas Show • December • All Saints Church • Hove

 

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