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FEATURE: Sugar’s Big Hair Trip Part 1

Latvia, a country neighbouring Russia, regained independence from the Soviet Union in 1992 and decriminalised homosexuality soon after.

However, general social opinion has not moved on much since then. In 2005, Riga, the capital city held its first pride but unfortunately counter protesters greatly outnumbered pride protesters and in 2006 Riga Pride was banned by the authorities.

Regardless, pride took place again in 2007 and the 500 pride goers outnumbered the 100 counter protesters. However, simultaneous anti-pride events elsewhere in the city attracted thousands of protesters.

Same sex marriage is banned, as is same-sex adoption with only 12% and 8% of Latvians supporting these equalities. As an LGBT+ person in Latvia you are at a much greater risk of attack than you are here in the United Kingdom and local meeting points for the small LGBT+ community are often targeted. As an LGBT+ person you are able to make no criminal charge against your attacker other than that of ‘Hooliganism’.

So what was, I, a trans woman who does not pass through the world looked upon as cisgender by the majority of people, going to Latvia for in the first place?

A hair transplant. I had searched the world for a surgeon willing to take me on as a patient and I just could not find one. I am so bald from going through male menopause at 19 years old that most surgeons would not touch me stating that I was simply not a candidate for this surgery and my only option was wigs, or they would try to take my money upfront knowing that they would only be able to give me a partial head of hair and not tell me this until I had made the journey to their country and was half way through surgery.

I had just about given up hope after receiving so so many knock backs when my now standard email explaining who I am accompanied with photos of myself didn’t get a refusal email, but a request to Skype.

I wasn’t too hopeful as I had already been through this process many times and eventually been refused, but this time was different. I had my first Skype consultation with a female surgeon and she explained to me what I had heard many times over about the limited amount of donor hair but I appealed to her, reminding her why she went into this line of business in the first place and made it very clear I was prepared to take a risk if she would.

This would be new to her as even the most advanced clients are done in one long day surgery of 8-10 hours, and perhaps the next morning. She warned me that this would not be easy, it would be pioneering, there would be no guarantees and that I would have to sit through up to 16 hours of surgery a day over multiple days. She recruited extra nurses to work alongside her and we were all set to try something new – so, I was off to Riga. Scary on all accounts.

I had never used my female passport before and going through the London airport I found it all very exciting. Having breasts and testicles show up on the 3D scanner which then assumes that one of them is concealing drugs resulted in me being referred for extra security.

My gender and pronouns were respected and I felt I was treated with dignity. This continued as I passed through the airport, as, by their very nature are a crossroads of all types of people of all diversity. It was only when I approached the gate of a Latvian borne flight by a Hungarian carrier that the attitudes towards me changed.

I am a strong woman and not easily flustered anymore and although I could tell the man sitting shoulder to shoulder with me on the flight wanted to punch me in the face, he knew he couldn’t and I felt safe knowing that.

Passport control was much easier than anticipated and before I knew it I was in a car on the way to a 5* hotel. The hotel and the staff were amazing and could not do enough for me, even running out for cigarettes for me because I didn’t feel safe.

The next morning I was picked up in a car at 8am and was taken to surgery. I met my team of 5 who were to be working on me and we wasted no time.

The actual procedure was worse than I had ever imagined but i always knew it was never going to be a walk in the park. We worked solidly stopping twice for meals and I was driven back as the nurses cleaned up the theatre at 11:30pm. I was picked up at 8am the next day and we finished at 11pm agreeing that the potential risks of working a 3rd day far outweighed any benefits, so we stopped and booked another 2 full days surgery in 10 weeks time, when I have, fingers crossed, healed without infection.

The physical and emotional pain I was in over those two days was matched by the physical and emotional exhaustion from the team working on me. I consider myself very lucky to have found them and to have convinced them into taking on this level of work.

As I prepared to fly home my face was swollen beyond recognition. I tried my best to apply some make up to at least try to look a little like my passport. I had a letter in Latvian and English from my surgeon explaining what I had been through and that I would not look like my passport photo. Nor could I wear a wig, and so bandaged up, with my best foot forward I headed home, grateful of those letters, as I really did need them.

I am now 7 days post op and the nerve endings are starting to come back which is increasing my pain levels despite the cocktail of painkillers I am on. I am showing no sign of infection which is great and I am looking forward to 9 weeks time, 5 by the time this is published, when I fly back to be reunited with my surgical team for another few days of work.

What a lucky, lucky woman I am.

BRIGHTON FRINGE PREVIEW: Alan Turing – Guilty of Love – World Premiere

New Musical about WW2 code breaker Alan Turing receives World Premiere during Brighton Fringe.

Alan Turing- Guilty of Love tells the tragic story of the WW2 hero who broke the Enigma codes at Bletchley Park and helped win the War but was prosecuted for homosexuality in 1952. The show explores his early relationship with Christopher Morcom, a fellow pupil at Sherborne School, who died at the age of 19 and was a lifelong influence.

Turing himself died in 1954 at the age of 41 of cyanide poisoning. The production is timed to coincide with this year’s 50th anniversary of the Sexual Offences Act 1967 which decriminalised homosexual acts in private between two men, provided both had attained the age of 21.  Turing was granted a Royal Pardon in 2013 and earlier this year thousands of convicted men were posthumously pardoned (Turing’s Pardon).

This professional production presented by Oxford Music Theatre and directed by David Kettle is serious, tragic, but told with humour and humanity. It uses the Passion narrative and structure and features stunning new lyrics and music by established Brighton-based writing partnership Jane Bramwell and Michael Brand. The show will also features Brighton’s Resound Male Voices.

Jane Bramwell, book and lyric writer says: “Alan Turing died tragically young with so much of his promise unfulfilled, as a result of a then barbaric law, and inhumane punishment to which he was subjected. Turing is now mostly known for his code breaking activities in the war, and his invention of the computer. In this show we tell the human story.”

Alan Turing – ‘Guilty of Love’, is presented by Oxford Music Theatre and directed by David Kettle with book and lyrics by Jane Bramwell, music by Michael Brand and musical director is Greg Arrowsmith

Cast includes: Alan Turing – Jamie Sheasby; Christopher Morcom/Evangelist – Jamie Coles; Mrs Morcom (Christopher’s Mother) – Vikki Lyons and Giuseppe Pellingra, Carolina Di GregorioCaitlin Downie, Allan Scott-Douglas, Josh Capper and Resound Male Voices under the musical direction of Stefan Holmstrom.

To view the video featuring the title song Guilty of Love, click here:


Event: Alan Turing – Guilty of Love – World Premiere

Where: St Mary’s Church, 61 St James’ Street, Kemptown, Brighton BN2 1PR

When: Thursday, June 1 and Friday June 2

Time: 7.45pm

Cost: £10 / £8

To book tickets online, click here:

 

Labour and Green leaders send messages of support to Brighton Trans Visibility event

Transgender Day of Visibility was marked in beautiful sunshine by trans activists, their friends and allies on Friday, March 31 in New Steine Gardens.

An impressive lineup of speakers addressed the crowd including; Daniel Cheesman the new CEO of Brighton & Hove LGBT Switchboard, Joanna Rowland-Stuart the trans rep and volunteer at Brighton & Hove LGBT Community Safety Forum, Sgt Peter Allan, Hate Crime Sergeant and Trans Equality Advocate at Sussex Police and Labour Councillor, Lloyd Russell-Moyle who all highlighted the importance of trans people being visible and being supported when they are.

Broadcaster and trans activist Sophie Cook who hosted the event, brought the vigil to a close with a powerful motivational speech about her trans journey to date and the difficult decisions she had to take to be herself and live her life as she wants to.

Jeremy Corbyn MP leader of the Labour Party and Caroline Lucas MP for Brighton Pavilion and joint leader of the Green Party both sent messages of support.

Jeremy Corbyn MP
Jeremy Corbyn MP

Jeremy Corbyn said: “I would like to send you all a message of support on Transgender Day of Visibility.

Raising the visibility of transgender people and recognising their great contributions to society is crucial. People must feel safe to express their true gender identity free of fear.

Too often, transgender people face verbal and physical abuse and incidents of online bullying have increased over recent years.

Trans visibility has never been higher – and I’d like to thank you all for all your work to make that so. But, as you know, that increased visibility has led to a backlash from those determined to deny trans identities.

We need visibility to break down prejudice. Through education, awareness and the commitment of trans people to express their identities we will reduce bigotry and build an inclusive society for all.”

Caroline Lucas MP

Caroline Lucas, MP, said: “I’m sorry not to be with you this afternoon. I received the invitation to join you yesterday evening, but unfortunately I’ve got long-standing commitments at the Green Party conference in Liverpool.

Whilst I’m not able to be with you in person, I wanted to send these few words. Firstly, just how immensely proud I am to be an MP in such a vibrant, understanding, and accepting city. But we should not be complacent.

Not whilst there is currently NO legal recognition for Trans youth under the age of 18; not whilst there is currently NO legal recognition for non-binary people; not whilst the Trans community in Britain, and elsewhere, continues to face violence and discrimination.

Mahatma Gandhi said: “make injustice visible”; and today, on International Transgender Day of Visibility it’s an opportunity to embrace his message, to celebrate the transgender community, and to challenge injustice when we encounter it.

The power of being visible is immense, it cannot be underestimated. It sends the message that we will not be ruled by fear and hate, and in Brighton and Hove we lead the way on spreading that message.

To all attending the event today – raising awareness of the discrimination experienced by the transgender community is vital. I hope this occasion is an opportunity to make some noise, to celebrate, and importantly, to be seen. 

The event, organised at just 24 hours notice, brought an impressive group of speakers together with messages of support from national political leaders and should be added to the annual LGBT+ calendar of events in the city.

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