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Brighton Bear Quiz raises £258.35 for Rainbow Fund

There wasn’t a spare table in the Camelford Arms on Thursday, December 22 as the Brighton Bear Annual Christmas quiz started for many an extended holiday period.

Quiz winners: The Fantastic 4 Skins
Quiz winners: The Fantastic 4 Skins

A total of £258.35 was raised for The Rainbow Fund who gives grants to local community groups and HIV/AIDS charities.

Sadly the winning team The Fantastic 4 Skins missed out on all five main prizes include the £300 cash prize and walked away with the tin of mushy peas.

Graham Munday
Graham Munday

Graham Munday Chair of Brighton Bear, said: “We are always delighted to see so many enjoy the quiz and delight in the atmosphere of The Camelford Arms. Thanks to quiz mater Dale Drury and all the Camelford staff team who were busy all night serving food and drinks.

“Thanks also to all the people who donated raffle prizes including Prowler, New Steine Hotel, Brighton Bier, Komedia, Amsterdam Bar, BRUT and Brit Bear, without their help we would not raise so much. The biggest thank you goes to the people who came out and supported us on the night, put money in our buckets and filled our shakers. Thank you.”

The next Brighton Bear event is Black Valentine on February 12 where Brighton Bear will be teaming up with Leathermen South and Subline to give you a whole weekend of pleasure.

The Rainbow Fund give grants to local LGBT/HIV organisations in Brighton & Hove, who provide effective front line services to LGBT people in the city.

For more information about Brighton Bear, click here:

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OBITUARY: Gary Swan – ‘Gloria’

March 8, 1958 – December 18, 2016

Anyone who has supported the Brighton commercial scene over the last 30 years will probably at some point have had contact with Gary either as a friend or a customer at one of the many venues he worked at. The majority of us knew him as Gloria.

In the 1980’s, when the number of gay venues in Brighton was a lot less than today, Gary would regularly socialise in The Curtain Club, The Palace Club, The Heart & Hand, The Bulldog, The Cricketers, The Spotted Dog and The Longbranch after returning home from his job working in commercial conveyancing in London. Gary was known as being the life and soul of the party with a love of music, dancing and fashion.

Following the opening of The Beacon Royal, Aquarium and Secrets the opportunity for Gary to meet up with friends and hit the dance floor increased. With his height, build, long platinum blond hair and a laugh or scream that could fill a room he was very recognisable. Once seen Gary could never be forgotten.

After being made redundant Gary took a job as a barman at Revenge and soon took control of the second floor ‘Pier View Bar’. On quieter mid-week nights, he would hold court and keep regulars amused with his sharp acerbic wit.

When Tony Chapman bought the New Europe Hotel, Gary started working some shifts behind Legends Bar. In time Gary moved on from Revenge to work at Legends full-time. He managed the night bar several nights a week and worked during the day on Sundays.

In August 1995 the licensing laws were relaxed, allowing all day opening on Sundays and with that, Legends introduced their now infamous Sunday Cabaret slot. This was a delight for Gary who loved introducing the acts who were performing and giving him chance to get to know them all better.

As the 20th Century drew to a close Gary decided that it was time for a break from working on the scene and he started work at a call centre for Cable and Wireless as a team leader. However, within a short period of time he began to miss the scene and returned to The New Europe Hotel at the weekends to begin his years as a doorman at Schwarz Bar.

With the closing of Schwarz and the call centre at Cable & Wireless, Gary returned to working in property conveyancing taking a role with a solicitor’s in Crawley, but it wasn’t long before he was back on the door at weekends at Revenge.

Following the financial crash in 2008 again Gary found himself without full-time employment and returned to working full-time on the door at Revenge and R-Bar where his popularity resulted in him winning the Golden Handbag award for Favourite Door Security in 2010/11.

Gary remained at Revenge until health issues meant he was not able to carry on doing a job he loved. While on the door he was known for being firm but fair with a welcoming smile for those who behaved themselves!

Behind his ‘Public Persona’ Gary was a deeply private person who kept any problems he was having to himself and like Greta Garbo he regularly said: “I want to be alone”.

As his health began to fail Gary spent his time caring for his mother at the home they shared in Worthing, with their large family of cats, and doing some work for Worthing Cat Welfare.

Sadly, after several stays in hospital over the past year Gary’s health deteriorated during the last few weeks of his life and he passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 18.

Details of a celebration/memorial of Gary’s life will be announced as soon as they have been arranged and where everyone who knew him will be welcome to attend.

An old friend of Gary’s, said:

“Gloria was one of the true stately homos of Brighton the like of which we will not see again” 

                                                                                      Submitted and written by Andy Carpenter

OBITUARY: Michael Burton – ‘Mouse’

November 14, 1979 – December 12, 2016

Photo: James Brooks

Michael ‘Mouse’ Burton, aged 37, died in Brighton in the early hours of Sunday, December 12, 2016.

Michael was born on November 14, 1979, to parents Mandy and Bruce and was sibling to older sister Kirsty.

Growing up in Farnborough, Hampshire, he quickly developed a flair for all things artistic particularly theatre, dressmaking and poetry; as a teenager he had many of his poems published.

He also had a passion for alternative therapies, was a reiki master three times over in different disciplines and was also a talented kinesiologist.

His first love, however, was the people in his life and he had an amazing ability to bring out the best in everyone he met.

Despite his fear of large bodies of water, Michael decided to move to Brighton in 2000 where he quickly fell in love with every aspect of the city.

He worked in various positions including Charles Street Bar, but in recent years he took joy in combining his hobby of sewing with his innate creativity and was employed making bespoke lampshades. He always laughed as he referred to this as a “very shady business”. 

Michael was a talented linguist and had a way with words to rival his comedy hero Victoria Wood.

He was a true individual who valued the happiness of those around him above all else. This is reflected in his large group of friends who were so important to him that he often referred to them as his “urban family”.

He will be sorely missed by those friends, his family and all who knew him; he will be fondly remembered by anyone who had the good fortune to meet him.

Funeral details will be published once arrangements have been made by the family.

                                                                        Written and submitted by Aaron Lawrence

Make a donation and help Turkish Pride in 2017

This summer, despite Pride in Istanbul being banned, LGBT+ Turks marched anyway and were met with tear gas, rubber bullets, and water cannons.

All Out campaigning website needs 3,000 people to donate before midnight on December 31 to help cover costs to campaign for love and equality in Turkey and around the world next year.

Görkem Ulumeriç an organiser for Istanbul Pride said: “My friends and I were traumatised. Some were physically wounded or scared for their lives.

“Then something beautiful happened. In a show of solidarity for us here in Istanbul, All Out members of the All Out Campaigning website from all around the world threw the world’s biggest virtual Pride flag wave around us.

“It inspired us to keep fighting. It gave us strength and dignity. But the government continues its crackdown and hate groups keep attacking LGBT+ people. As we head into next year, it’s clear we need a global movement.

“Please support the campaign by All Out.Donate today so All Out can continue to mobilise global campaigns with activists like me in 2017.”

Many LGBT+ people in Turkey live in constant fear. In August, Hande Kader, a transgender activist, was brutally murdered in Istanbul. In November, Levent Piskin, a famous LGBT activist and lawyer, was arrested.

Görkem continued: “I’m afraid that bigoted politicians and hate groups here will only feel justified and empowered by the rise of anti-LGBT+ politicians in the U.S. and Europe.

“That’s why it’s so critical that All Out has enough funding to continue to work with activists like me next year. When All Out mobilises their huge global membership, it can make an incredible difference in our fights on the ground.

“Can you chip in before midnight on December 31 so our vital work together can continue in 2017?

I’m not giving up and I hope you aren’t either. The solidarity of people like you gives me hope that love can win here in Istanbul.”

To make a donation to the All Out campaign, click here:

 

 

Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus welcome new members for 2017 season

Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus (BrightonGMC) will hold a New Members’ Evening at 7:30pm on Tuesday, January 10, 2017 at the Brighton Unitarian Church, New Road, Brighton.

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If you are thinking of a new year resolution that will give you a chance to make new friends, lift your spirit, get involved with the local community and even challenge yourself with something new, then BrightonGMC might we something for you!

The Chorus has three seasons every year, Spring, Summer and Winter, each culminating in sell-out performances. New members who join in January for the Spring season will have the chance to perform in the Brighton Fringe Festival in their Superhero Show on May 5 and 6.

The New Members’ Evening is the first evening back after their winter break. It will comprise a short rehearsal, as a ‘taster’ of how they work, followed by an opportunity to socialise with members over tea and cake.

For some people, joining a well-established group like BrightonGMC might seem a daunting prospect, but everyone is assured of a warm welcome from the four-time winners of Brighton’s Golden Handbag for Favourite Social Network Group. New members will also be looked after by a buddy-system throughout their first season, and in no time at all, they will become part of the BrightonGMC family .

The Chorus has exciting plans for 2017 including travelling to Manchester to attend the bi-annual Hand in Hand Festival, an LGBTQ choral festival that BrightonGMC co-hosted in 2015 with the Rainbow Chorus, and which attracts over 20 choirs from all over the UK.

The Chorus is particularly looking for lower voices, especially basses; but all voices are most welcome.

Members who can’t make it to the New Members’ Evening on January 10 can still join throughout the season. New members are always welcome; and there is no obligation to join.

At its heart BrightonGMC is a community chorus, and there are no auditions to join.

BrightonGMC is a space where people can celebrate music, celebrate their sexuality, enjoy the fellowship of other like-minded people and contribute to the local communities of which it is a part.

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Pull a cracker at Brighton Dome, Saturday December 10

The Chorus is a registered charity with three guiding principles, their “Three S’s”:

♦   Singing – the celebration of life and music through male voice harmony;

♦   Socialising – using singing to develop social bonds that help people to feel connected in a sometimes lonely world; and

♦   Support – to be there for each other – both collectively and individually – when the chips are down, and to be there for the communities in which the chorus operates, too.

Vaughan Leyshon, Membership Coordinator for the Chorus, said: “The Chorus has grown steadily over the last twelve years becoming the largest gay men’s chorus in the UK outside  London. It is currently going from strength to strength – performing to a high standard, pushing its creative boundaries and playing an important role in the local community by supporting other charities and worthy causes.  We’re really happy to welcome new members as we embark on the next chapter in our story.”

Membership is open to anyone who self-identifies as a gay or gay-friendly man.

For more information  about membership, email:

For more information about BrightonGMC, click here:

Singing is good for your health and improves confidence

Rainbow Chorus Plus (RC+) is a welcome confidence building initiative from the Rainbow Chorus, Brighton’s long-standing LGBT choir.

It is now in its second year largely thanks to support from the Rainbow Fund. The grant at the time raised a few eyebrows as some might wonder why is it necessary to fund somebody’s hobby?

The Rainbow Chorus, founded 19 years ago, prides itself on providing a safe place for anyone within the LGBT+ community to go along and sing with like-minded people and strives to be as inclusive as possible.

The choir includes many people with disabilities amongst its members, some people with HIV, and spans a wide age range, including older people who can often feel isolated and excluded from the Brighton scene. So singing with people who understand the pressures and the joys of being part of the LGBT+ community can be a lifeline for many. But, because of the big commitment needed and the fact the choir sings at many public events, it was felt there was a need for an even more inclusive forum for people to sing in. And so RC+ was born.

RC+ meets roughly once a month in Brighton, current members are a cross-section of all vocal ranges and abilities, and includes members of the performing choir itself who are keen to participate in learning different techniques.

Each workshop-style session is held on a Saturday, where people are taught breathing and voice techniques, get to sing in small groups and learn songs. Some members who would never have before dreamed of singing in public joined the choir to perform in the Rainbow Chorus’ summer concert. At RC+ sessions, the Musical Director, Aneesa Chaudhry has focused on specific aspects of learning choral singing and, a life skill applicable to all areas of our lives, building individual self-confidence.

And that’s where RC+ offers more than the fun of singing. It has many other benefits, not least that it’s actually good for your health!

The Alzheimer’s Society and Heart Research UK are among those acknowledging the numerous health benefits of singing. In particular, singing is a physical workout for the heart and lungs; it improves posture and sleep and leads to a decrease in stress hormones. During singing, endorphins are released into the bloodstream, leading to a sense of pleasure and well-being. For vulnerable members of our local community, this kind of initiative is invaluable.

There are social and psychological advantages too. A choir is a great place to meet new friends and nurtures a sense of belonging to a community. Loneliness is a big problem of our times and those of us with busy lives or who are able to work may take the value of being sociable for granted.

RC+ is proud to have recently been awarded a Mind Out Mental Health Award for its contribution to improving the mental wellbeing of LGBT+ communities. The choral association actively seeks and encourages members from our trans/non-binary communities to join, providing a safe and fun space to find and explore the range and depth of their voices.

Thanks to the Rainbow Fund, RC+ is available to members at a reduced monthly subscription of only £10. The first session being offered free of charge, and no one will ever be turned anyone away on the grounds of being unable to pay.

Want to know more? Drop them a line at membership@rainbowchorus.org.uk and they will answer any questions you may have.

Here are a few nice words from members attending RC+:

“I’m FTM and after being on ‘T’ for a few months, my voice has dropped deeper and at RC+ I can try out singing Bass parts in a safe supported environment.” 

“I was feeling a bit down but I knew RC+ would cheer me up and it did.”

“Lovely experience coming together as a community. I leave feeling a greater sense of belonging – it is good for my soul. Really helpful and interesting teaching.”

“Great day. Very affirming for an LGBT+ person. Good tuition that involved all levels of music experience. Soul soothing and inspiring fun!”

“Lovely to come together to sing with such a warm, friendly bunch of people!”

“RC+ is a really uplifting experience. It’s a safe space to meet other people. It helps me feel more confident and part of my community, which is really important as I have been feeling so isolated. It is truly great to do something so positive and be part of a great sound. Thanks…”

“I felt empowered and had a great time.”

“I was feeling grumpy & overwhelmed with grief. After taking time out with RC Plus, I feel so much better. There is a strong sense of community in using our voices together.”
“As a trans person whose voice is changing RC+ offers a fantastic safe space to explore my “new” voice.”

Dates RC+ will meet in 2017:

♦ January 21

♦ February 18

♦ March 18

♦ April tbc

♦ May 6

♦ June 10 and 17

♦ July 1

Couple return to Brighton after 10 years to marry

Michele and Laura Walklett have been partners for 15 years and are now in the eyes of the law, officially married.

Michele (left) and Laura (right)
Michele (left) and Laura (right)

The couple originally entered into a civil partnership in Brighton on November 18, 2006, before moving to live together in Spain.

They returned to Brighton on November 18, 2016, 10 years to the day, at the same time of the day, with the same registrar officiating to have their Civil Partnership converted into a marriage, so now they can officially say they have been married for 10 years.

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Mayor hosts reception for Transgender charity

Mayor of Brighton & Hove, Cllr Pete West hosts a reception for The Clare Project in the Mayor’s Parlour at Brighton Town Hall on Friday, December 20 to acknowledge the group recently becoming a Charitable Incorporated Organisation (CIO).

The Clare Project is a self-supporting group based in Brighton open to anyone wishing to explore issues around gender. They run a weekly drop in for anyone struggling or questioning their gender identity.

In his opening remarks, the Mayor said one of the highlights of his year in office to date was being invited to walk at the front of the Trans Pride march in July and how proud he is to be Mayor of a city with such a fantastic and vibrant trans community.

He thanked the The Clare Project for all the work they had done over the years supporting trans people and congratulated them on recently becoming a CIO.

Dr Sam Hall

Dr Sam Hall, Chair of The Clare Project thanked the Mayor for inviting the group to the Town Hall. Before introducing the new board of trustees, he thanked the project volunteers, supporters and allies and acknowledged that while it had been a difficult year for The Clare Project as they prepared to become a CIO, the organisation now had firm governance and was now ready to move forward.

For more information about The Clare Project, click here:

 

TONIGHT: ‘Let it Snow’ – Actually Gay Men’s Chorus

The Actually Gay Men’s Chorus (AGMC) Christmas offering this year is tonight Friday, December 23 at St Andrew Church in Hove.

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There’s a flurry of activity underway in Brighton & Hove as Actually Gay Men’s Chorus add a dusting of sparkle to their Christmas production Let It Snow. This is a real fixture on the city calendar each year and the perfect way to start the festive season’s celebrations.

Tonight, Friday December 23 at 8pm, the doors to St Andrew’s Church, Waterloo Street in Hove, will be open wide for the Chorus to extend a warm welcome and bid their audience a very Merry Christmas in true festive, feel good style.

The evening will feature a blizzard of traditional carols, festive music and much, much more, with plenty of opportunity for audience participation. ‘

Let It Snow will be conducted by Musical Director Samuel Cousins and compered by Chorus patron and audience favourite, Gerry McCrudden.

Let It Snow will be raising funds for ‘inclusion For All the national anti bullying charity and The Rainbow Fund, who make grants to LGBT organisations in Brighton & Hove who provide effective front line services to LGBT people in the city.


Event: ACTUALLY GAY MEN’S CHORUS – Let it snow

Where: St Andrews Church, Waterloo Street, Hove

When: Friday, December 23

Time: 8pm

Cost: Tickets £12/£10 concessions

To book tickets online with no booking fee, click here:

For more information about Actually Gay Men’s Chorus, click here:

book review: date of birth, time of death: pp hartnet

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pp hartnet

 

The work of PP Hartnett can be described as a creative tumult, a powerful clash of the desirable and the unacceptable, ultimately a fertile ground for revolt and the sort of truth-telling that destabilises normalcy and the arid routines of the mind. Photographer and musician, novelist, poet, and short-story writer, Hartnett embraces the endless possibilities of each genre, often arriving at a place of collision between them.

Hartnet’s new poetry, is utterly uncompromising, his urgent, honest words have sent shudders up the squeaky clean puritan corridors of ITunes content corridors. Interesting that queer poems could cause such hand wringing and puritan commercial anguish. Of course it’s not the content  (ironically enough) considering the opening poems title ‘content warning ‘of the work, but the focus.

harnets work has a deep interest in the shadows of the other gaze, sexual, violent, savage, passionate, particularly ones that the endless flickering light of the internet throws contrast and unflinching illumination into, it never easy, but then it’s not meant to be. It’s punchy, practical, and well-honed heft will slap you with its audacity, and then comfort you with the cold comfort of truth. It’s never clear if this is fantasy, confession or observation in the many seriously sexual gay male spaces Hartnet is very familiar with, but its sharp edged needling voice won’t let you put this book down.

Presented with as much understated elegance as the prose it’s written in, this is a superb and unexpected treat for the winter season.  Poetry for the now, presented by a man unflinching in his desires.

For more info or to buy this (very)  limited edition print run see hartnets’s website here: 

  • due : 01 january, 2017
  • publisher : autopsy
  • format : print, hardback
  • limited edition : 50 copies at 10 pounds
  • availability : via this site and at readings
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