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BOOK REVIEW: The Holy Mark

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The Holy Mark

The Tragedy of a Fallen Priest by Gregory Alexander

The Holy Mark is a dramatic monologue told from the point of view of a psychologically disturbed Catholic priest who continually rationalizes and justifies his abusive relationships with teenaged boys. It combines the elements of a psychological case study and dysfunctional New Orleans Italian family saga.

The story begins with the narrator “in exile” in a tiny North Louisiana parish where he has been reassigned by the Church hierarchy and where he suffers the humiliation of celebrating mass in a leaky trailer. He reflects on his life, including his childhood and twenty-five years in the Church. That reflection, covering the years 1970-1995, is the meat of the novel.

In this disturbingly memorable novel about a wayward priest set in late 20th-century New Orleans, Alexander explores familial revenge, rails against the hypocrisy of the Roman Catholic Church, and creates a believable narrator guilty of heinous acts.

The book is quite terrible in its ability to get under your skin and creep you out.  I felt quite disturbed by the author’s capacity to bring empathy and understanding to some seriously unpleasant and uncomfortable thoughts and actions and the protagonist gains our sympathy even while being a seriously repugnant person. A shocking novel of family, power, and revenge, The Holy Mark is the story of one reluctant priest caught between the cynicism of his own Southern American upbringing heavy with Italian heritage and the expectations of belief, religious devotion and the never questioning that goes with it and the political machinations of the Roman Catholic Church.

Alexander uses his skill with prose to lead us carefully into the mind of this monster and without being sensational or overly frightening he allows the reasons and reasoning of this chilling protagonist to become normal as we delve deeper into the book. He really reminded me of another New Orleans writer Poppy Z Brite. Her books, like Alexander’s (and one of Alexander’s more famous fans- Anne Rice) are set into the fetid crumbling multi layered city.  Brites book- ‘Exquisite Corpse’ which explores a love affair between two gay serial killers and is both highly erotic and deeply disturbing at the same time; makes you feel for the lovers and their relationships. This same sense of intimating us the readers in the depravity of the protagonist and his relentless acts of dehumanization flow through this and I was glad to put the book down. One wonders what it is about this crepuscular city that produces such authors as Rice, Brite and Alexander.

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Father Tony is a wretchedly believable character, skilfully realised and as beguiling and charming on the page as he must be with his victims. He creeped me out. The books disturbing subject matter is never allowed to convince of its depravity though, the Church and its hypocritical dealing with abuse are skewered though with the bitter self-delusion of Father Tony’s self-serving lies also serving to expose the Catholic Chorus hierarchy in their cesspit of denial. It’s a class act, dragging us into the crepuscular mind of this paedophile priest while showing his actions, rationalisations and reasoning embedded in the Church that serves as his employer and cover.  It’s a fascinating way to tackle the epidemic of institutional and organised abuse and denial in the Catholic Church, by using its own voice to condemn it.  There’s no struggle in this priest though, he seems to have an almost incidental relationship with God and never goes through any kind of conscience wrenching or inner turmoil around his behaviours.

Not an easy read by any means, but certainly one of the more fascinating and disturbing books I’ve read in a long while. This is a subject that is continuously in the news and fresh exposure continues to horrify, Gregory Alexander is possibly the first author to explore the inner workings of these demonised abusive priests in a way which renders them human even while destroying the innocence and shattering the trust around them.

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LGBT+ celebrities shout about their LGBT heroes

To mark the re-launch of one of the UK’s oldest LGBT+ charities, LGBT+ celebrities talk about their LGBT+ heroes on video.

Calum McSwiggan
Calum McSwiggan

The video, made by YouTuber Calum McSwiggan, was premiered at the re-launch of LGBT+Switchboard at The Waldorf Hilton Hotel in London last week, to an audience of 600 guests including many of the famous faces who had contributed clips.

It was simultaneously published on Calum’s YouTube channel.

To view the video, click here:

Tom Daley
Tom Daley

Opening the video, Switchboard’s newest patron Tom Daley says: “My LGBT hero is anyone that is brave enough to be who they are, and embrace it, and be proud of it. Because it’s people like that who are able to encourage other people to do the same.”

Lewis & Fox
Lewis & Fox

Brighton based trans* activists, Fox & Lewis, say: “Our LGBT heroes are anyone involved in the trans movement, whether that’s in film, radio or journalism.”

George Takei
George Takei

George Takei reveals his hero to be Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple, stating: “He personifies the diversity of LGBT people throughout American society.”

Bethany Black
Bethany Black

Bethany Black says: “My LGBT hero is Julie Hesmondhaigh who is in Cucumber and Banana and has been a real strong ally for the LGBT community for the last 16 years.”

Matt Lucas
Matt Lucas

Matt Lucas, added: “My gay hero is Ben Cohen who has done amazing work as an activist to combat homophobic bullying and has just generally been a great supporter of the gay community.”

Mark Gatiss
Mark Gatiss

Mark Gatiss, a long-time supporter and patron of the charity, is one of the last people in the video to speak, naming the charity volunteers as his heroes. “I don’t have an LGBT hero, I have hundreds and hundreds of them. All the wonderful people who have volunteered for Switchboard over the years.”

The chorus of stars go on to name many other people as their heroes throughout the video including Derren Brown, Laverne Cox, and Ellen DeGeneres.

The video is the finale to a series of 25 LGBT+ themed videos produced by YouTuber Calum McSwiggan throughout LGBT London Pride month. With the help of so many well-known faces, he has created an uplifting video featuring a wide and diverse range of celebrities talking about the people who inspire them the most.

Each video in the month-long series featured a different guest from the LGBT+ communities, including an LGBT+ football team, an adult film star, sex & relationship experts, famous drag queens, a couple on their wedding night, and multiple YouTube stars.

Calum says: “It’s been incredible to work with so many amazing people over the past month, I really wanted to finish this video series with a bang and leave a lasting message about the importance of the work the charity do. I think bringing all these inspirational people together for this final video does just that.”

Every video in the series also encourages those watching to take a #SwitchboardSelfie and post it on social media to spread awareness about the charity. Tom Daley, Scott Mills, and Carly Rae Jepsen are among the many names to have posted a selfie and a message of support.

Switchboard is a voluntary organisation with charitable status whose aim is to provide an information, support and referral service for anyone who needs to consider issues around sexuality and gender identity.

 

 

 

 

 

Pinky helps the homeless

Pinky Callwood decided to do something completely different for his birthday this year.

Pinky Callwood
Pinky Callwood

Rather than have a party he told his friends not to buy him any presents but to donate what ever they could to help the homeless living on the streets of Brighton.

Pinky contacted local hotels and approached business’s asking them to help too. After lots of telephone calls the donations came flooding in.

Blankets were donated by the Holiday Inn Hotel. Pies were donated by Higgidy Pie. Pinky also bought toiletries as he knew they would also be needed. His friend Mel Humphrey’s baked cup cakes so that Pinky could share birthday cakes with the homeless on his birthday.

With his friends Sami, Bobby and Robert….he booked four large taxi’s to carry 50 bags of food and 50 blankets to St James Street Brighton – a location well-known to homeless people and began giving away the items to those in need.

As luck would have it another friend Stephanie Starlet, who is a well-known entertainer was walking by and saw what was happening. Stephanie sent a message out on Facebook inviting the homeless to turn up and collect the food and blankets.

Within minutes Starlet’s post went viral with over 500 likes and over 100 shares.

Pinky said: “This proved without any doubt that the LGBT Communities in Brighton have a big heart and really do care about the lives of homeless people in Brighton.”

It took a few hours to distribute the food and blankets with the remainder being taken to New Stein Mews Shelter, to the delight of staff and residents.

What’s even more heart warming is that Pinky was actually homeless himself and took the time to help others.

Just two 2 days after this gesture, Pinky collected the keys to his new home and is no longer homeless.

Pinky would like to thank all those who helped including Amy B at Higgdy Pie, Mel Humphrey’s for baking birthday cupcakes, Members of The New Shoreham by Sea Facebook, Alexander Winehouse, Mary Kaye, Paul Okenden, Stephanie Starlet, Robert Anthony, Sami Oh Kirli, Bobby Gore, Rogerio Calaca and all the LGBT Community of Brighton & Hove for their kindness and support.

Council seek views on residents’ parking

Residents and businesses invited to give views on residents’ parking  in the Fiveways and Surrenden area of Brighton.

Brighton & Hove CouncilConsultation starts on Monday, July 6 with residents and businesses to gauge the level of support.

The proposed area also includes Hollingbury Park Avenue and Hollingbury Terrace. Residents will be given the option of a five or seven-day scheme with enforcement from 9am to 8pm.

Other options for different times/hours could be considered which would need further committee approval.

All homes, businesses and services in the area will receive details and questionnaires about the proposed scheme, and the survey will be available online from July 6.

To fill the survey online, click here: 

There will be a staffed exhibition at St Mary’s Catholic Church, 5 Surrenden Road on July 22 between 1pm and 8pm, plus an unstaffed exhibition at Hove Town Hall, in the Customer Service Centre, between 9am and 5pm during the consultation period.

Proposals for the scheme were drawn up following a citywide parking survey carried out last year. Councillors gave the go ahead for consultation at the March Environment, Transport & Sustainability Committee meeting.

Closing date for comments is 14 August.

Cllr Gill Mitchell
Cllr Gill Mitchell

Councillor Gill Mitchell, chair of the Environment, Transport & Sustainability Committee, said: “During the parking review in 2014 residents asked the council to look into the possibility of a parking scheme in these areas, so we encourage everyone to tell us what they think during the six-week consultation. All comments we receive will be carefully considered and the results reported to the Environment, Transport & Sustainability Committee on 6 October.”

If you are unable to attend the exhibition but would like further technical information email: parking.consultation@brighton-hove.gov.uk 

Or telephone: (01273) 292387.

Needs Discussion – What do you think HIV looks like?

Ian Richards is a UK based HIV positive artist currently on a three month residency in Leipzig (Germany).

Needs Discussion

Ian is developing artwork around HIV and is looking to collect thoughts and opinions from people living with HIV to help inform new artwork for his project Needs Discussion.

All information gathered will remain anonymous.

To fill in the ten question survey, click here:

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‘Oldest Gay in the Village’ recognised at Attitude Pride Awards

George Montague, affectionately known as the Oldest Gay in the Village was the recipient of an award at the inaugural Attitude Pride Awards held at the Grosvenor House Hotel on the eve of London Pride, Friday, June 26.

George Montague and Civil Parner, Somchai
George Montague and Civil Parner, Somchai

The event was hosted by actor Alan Cumming fresh from hosting the Tony’s earlier this month in the USA. Other personalities present included Barbara Windsor, Harry Potter star Matthew Lewis, N*Sync’s Lance Bass, Blue’s Anthony Costa and Duncan James and singer Conor Maynard.

George Montague a Brighton Pride Ambassador in 2013 and author of “The Oldest Gay in the Village” received his award from Barbara Windsor.

A total of twelve awards were presented to people, who have faced real challenges with strength and dignity and/or helped LGBT people in the community without fanfare or fame.

Other winners on the night included:

Jonathan Blake: An original member of Lesbians & Gays Support the Miners (LGSM), featured in the hit film Pride.

Asifa Lahore: A Muslim drag queen whose glamorous aura is coupled with a serious drive for LGBT activism.

Duncan Craig: Founder and CEO of Survivors Manchester, supporting male survivors of sexual abuse and rape.

Christian Webb: LGBT awareness in schools campaigner.

Ayla Holdom: RAF Search & Rescue Pilot and transgender activist.

Moud Goba: UK Lesbian & Gay Immigration Group support worker and community activist.

Jonny Benjamin: Mental health campaigner.

Emmanuel Okoghenu: Albert Kennedy Trust Ambassador.

Matthew Naz Mahmood-Ogston: From the Naz and Matt Foundation, building bridges between the LGBT and religious communities.

Toni Hogg: Manager and counsellor at Antidote, the LGBT Drug and Alcohol Service.

Mena Houghton: Who since the death of her gay son Mark has become an outspoken activist against homophobia.

George Montague

New tool launched to combat online abuse

Stop Online Abuse: Know Your Rights: Report, Complain, Campaign.Galop

A new website tackling online abuse aimed at women and LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered) people has been launched today.

Stop Online Abuse, a government funded site was created by Galop, an LGBT anti-violence charity, in consultation with Trans Media Watch, the Women’s Resource Centre, Gender Identity Research and Education Society, Rights of Women, Allsorts, End Violence Against Women and the LGBT Consortium.

The group of charities with 161 years of collective experience in anti-violence work came together in a unique alliance to provide answers for people facing this modern form of an old problem.

The website provides advice for individuals, especially women and LGBT people (lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans) about fighting abuse and harassment online and in other media.

The site was commissioned by the Government Equalities Office. With the message ‘Know your rights: report, complain, campaign’, it aims to empower people facing sexist, homophobic, biphobic or transphobic abuse online.

The site is the first of its kind to specifically tackle these issues. It was produced by experts from Galop as part of their fight for online safety, in response to growing number of people contacting them for help.

It is particularly aimed at people facing online harassment, domestic abuse, revenge porn, stalking, hate speech, sexual harassment, outing and blackmail, and contains advice about the law, sources of support and speaking up against abusive or derogatory online comments.

Nik Noone, Galop’s CEO said: “Evidence suggests that over one million people in the UK face online abuse each year. Whilst online abuse can affect anyone, women and LGBT people often experience abuse as a result of their sex, gender identity or sexual orientation.
We’ve all seen a growing number of high profile examples of online abuse in the news. Our casework here at Galop also evidences an increasing trend, the impact of which can have far reaching consequences. This project is about ensuring that protection from harassment and abuse against women and LGBT people in the real world exists in the online world too.”

Nicky Morgan MP
Nicky Morgan MP

Women and Equalities Minister Nicky Morgan said: “This new site will provide practical advice for women and LGB&T people on how to recognise abuse, what steps to take to report it and how to get offensive content removed. It is another sign of our determination to tackle discrimination in all its forms and to creating a fairer society for everyone, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.”

 

Brighton Big Screen line-up announced

Pride movie to be screened on Brighton beach on August 14.

Brighton Big Screen
Brighton Big Screen

Brighton’s Big Screen on the beach returns this summer with a movie line-up jam-packed with blockbuster, classic and family movies.

The open air cinema will return to Brighton beach from August 14 – September 13, 2015.

The gigantic 40sqm screen will showcase over 90 movie screenings including: Interstellar, The Goonies, Frozen Sing-Along, Paddington, Guardians of the Galaxy, Dirty Dancing , Blade Runner and a screening of the movie Pride.

Brighton Big Screen
Brighton Big Screen

On Sunday, August 16 at 2pm, there will be a dedicated Doggy Screening in association with the South Downs National Park’s, Take the Lead campaign, encouraging responsible dog walking.

This one-off event will invite

All responsible dog owners, dog lovers, and everyone in-between are invited to this one-off ‘doggy’ screening of the much-loved canine classic, 101 Dalmatians,

For a full list of movies being screened, click here:

Brighton Big Screen
Brighton Big Screen

 

New HIV prevention pilot for London’s gay Latino communities

METRO Charity starts new and innovative HIV prevention pilot working with London’s gay Latino communities.

Metro HIVUK Latino men who have sex with men (MSM) are around twice as likely to be HIV positive than the general MSM population, and there is very little understanding of the HIV prevention needs of this community.

A recent report by Guy’s and St Thomas’ describes the Latino MSM community as “invisible and with specific vulnerabilities and needs”.

MAC AIDS Fund who help people living with HIV worldwide joins with METRO who work supporting people living with HIV through initial needs assessments, advice and advocacy, referrals, group work and peer support, in recognising that more work must be done to understand the cultural factors influencing the sexual health of these communities in London.

Building on their long-standing relationship with METRO, now in its 5th year, MAC AIDS are funding an innovative peer support programme that delivers HIV prevention through sessions led by Latin American MSM for Latin American MSM.

Dr Greg Ussher
Dr Greg Ussher

Dr Greg Ussher, METRO CEO, said: “We are simply thrilled to be working on our 3rd project with the MAC AIDS Fund, they are such a smart funder, always looking to embrace new cutting edge work around HIV. London’s gay Latino communities will truly benefit thanks to MAC AIDS’ foresight combined with METRO’s award winning community engagement around health and wellbeing.

“There are so many intricate facets – faith, race, discrimination, immigration and social networks  – that we are really interested in exploring with London’s Latino MSM communities. The project will take a novel peer-led approach, empowering Latino MSM to have a voice in shaping effective HIV prevention interventions for the future.”

The research team is looking for enthusiastic and reliable volunteers to take part in this exciting, innovative and ground-breaking new programme.

Volunteers must be gay, bisexual and/or trans (including travesti) and identify as Latin/South American. It is important volunteers can attend meetings, training sessions and groups over the full course of this 12 month project. Knowledge of Spanish and/or Portuguese in addition to English is preferable.

If you’re interested email: tony@metrocharity.org.uk for more information.

Labour leadership candidate calls for LGBT rights envoy at UN

Liz Kendall, says the UK should be calling for UN action on LGBT rights not banning Pride flags.

Liz Kendall MP
Liz Kendall MP

Labour leadership candidate Liz Kendall today called on United Nations Secretary General Ban Ki-moon to appoint a special envoy for LGBT rights as part of achieving equality globally.

Liz Kendall MP, speaking at the start of London Pride weekend, said: “We’ve seen great strides for equality at home and abroad, most recently in Ireland and America, but we know there is so much more to do. That’s why I want to see the United Nations Secretary General appoint a special envoy for LGBT rights so that the world knows it is time to act.

“The UK government should be leading calls for the United Nations to be taking action on LGBT equality. Sadly we have a Foreign Secretary who is more interested in taking down the Pride flag and banning our embassies abroad from flying it than promoting equality globally.

“Any Government I lead will not only see the Foreign Office fly the Pride flag proudly but so too will our embassies abroad as they work to repeal anti-LGBT laws globally.

“We’ve seen the impact the US government has had from appointing Randy Berry as the Administration’s envoy for LGBT rights. Now the UN should do the same. It’s time to decriminalise homosexuality around the world.”

In five countries same-sex sexual activity carries the death penalty. Being gay is illegal in 78 countries across the world and being a lesbian is illegal in 49. Within our own Commonwealth homosexuality is a criminal offence in 41 out of 53 countries.

Liz Kendall has already pledged that she would want to see Michael Cashman, Lord Cashman of Limehouse CBE, to act as Labour’s international LGBT envoy in opposition and in government.

Liz Kendall said: “One of Ed Miliband’s achievements was bringing Labour’s voice to the global debate for LGBT equality. Not just that, he showed his willingness to combat discrimination head on when he pledged to appoint Michael Cashman as our global ambassador on LGBT rights.

“I know Michael will do much of this work anyway – which is why he is so right for this role – but as Labour’s leader I will make sure he has the full weight of our whole party behind him. And in any government I lead, Michael Cashman will have the machinery of government at his disposal in his mission.”

 

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