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Brighton couple go into the history books

Andrew Wale and Neil Allard became the first same sex couple in the UK to be married just after midnight at the Royal Pavilion in front of the the world’s media.

The first same sex marriage in England and Wales took place in Brighton at just after midnight on 29th Mar 2014 , between Andrew Wale (left) and Neil Allard, at the Pavilion, Brighton.
Photograph by Stephen D Lawrence

Friends and dignatries including the Mayor of Brighton & Hove and Simon Kirby, MP for Kemptown & Peacehaven, joined the couple in a ceremony that was conducted by Brighton & Hove City Council senior ceremonies registrar Trevor Love. Nerves were evident and forgiven as Neil gave his wrong hand up for Andrew’s ring as the ceremony was beamed around the world and covered live on Sky News TV.

The first same sex marriage in England and Wales took place in Brighton at just after midnight on 29th Mar 2014 , between Andrew Wale (seated) and Neil Allard, at the Pavilion, Brighton - signing the register
Photograph by Stephen D Lawrence

Hundreds of well wishers including many local students gathered outside the Royal Pavilion to congratulate the couple as they left after their ceremony.

Simon Kirby, MP
Simon Kirby, MP

Simon Kirby, MP for Kemptown & Peacehaven, said: “It was a very great privilege to be present at one of the very first same sex marriages.

“Having been involved as an MP in the legislation since its inception, it was fantastic to see history in the making and same sex marriage becoming a reality. I wish Andrew and Neil every happiness and hope that many more couples choose to come to our great City for their special day.”

Trevor Love
Trevor Love

Registrar Trevor Love, added: “The ceremony at Pavilion was fabulous and then, to cap it all, when it was all over, the couple were greeted by hundreds of well wishers waiting outside who cheered everyone who left the building!

“Biggest cheer of course for the couple.

“This has to be the proudest day of my career. I felt so privileged to do the first ceremony.”

Brighton Gay Men's Chorus with their musical director Marc Yarrow and the Mayor of Brighton & Hove
Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus with their musical director Marc Yarrow and the Mayor of Brighton & Hove

Across Pavilion Gardens at Brighton Town Hall, Philip Robathan and James Preston became the first same sex couple to be married at Brighton Town Hall at 8am this morning. The good Lord put two fingers up to UKIP and provided a lovely spring morning complete with blue sky for the happy couple who entered the Town Hall to a moving performance of Le Cantique de Jean Racine by Gabriel Faure sung by the Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus whose presence gave the proceedings a true community feel.

James Preston and Philip Robathan
James Preston and Philip Robathan

The ceremony was conducted by Brighton & Hove City Council registrar Debra Reynolds, who along with most people present shed a tear during the emotional ceremony when James read a poem by Pam Ayres.

Following the ceremony James and Philip were serenaded once again outside the Town Hall by the Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus with a rendition of David Bowie’s Life on Mars as they released two white doves into a beautiful clear blue sky.

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Mike Weatherley, MP for Hove & Portslade first raised the issue of same sex marriage with David Cameron back in 2011 and felt that it was right to make Same-Sex Marriage a priority for the Government.

Mike Weatherley, MP
Mike Weatherley, MP

He said: “It has been touching to read some of the incredible letters and emails in support of the change in the law. LGBT rights have come on a long way in a relatively short period of time in our country, but one only has to look abroad to see the appalling treatment that millions of gay people face every day.”

“Hove and Portslade has a large number of same-sex couples, many of whom I am sure will be looking to tie the knot after the changes in the law come into effect. I am proud to represent part of the city of Brighton & Hove which, generally, is known as a bastion of tolerance.”

Brighton & Hove City Council flew the Rainbow Flag from public buildings in recognition of the significance of the day to LGBT people living in Brighton and Hove.

Justin Welby
Justin Welby

Justin Welby, the Archbishop of Canterbury has indicated that the church will drop their opposition to same sex marriage.

Earlier in the week he told the Guardian newspaper: “I think the church has reacted by fully accepting that it’s the law, and should react on Saturday by continuing to demonstrate in word and action, the love of Christ for every human being.” 

Jean Lambert, MEP
Jean Lambert, MEP

London’s Green MEP, Jean Lambert offered her congratulations to all those getting married this weekend, but she said full equality would only come when all couples – regardless of their gender, sexuality or faith – could choose between marriage and a civil partnership.

Ms Lambert said: “Same sex marriage is a vital step towards equality – and I am delighted it has finally become an option for the many gay couples in committed relationships in London.

“But the struggle for full equality goes on – and Greens in the European Parliament will be at the heart of it.

Ruth Hunt
Ruth Hunt

Ruth Hunt, the acting CEO of Stonewall the LGB equality charity who spearheaded the campaign to achieve equal marriage has sent a message to all Stonewall supporters.

She wrote to supporters: “When Stonewall was founded 25 years ago it was illegal to discuss same-sex relationships in schools. We could be fired from our jobs, were forbidden from serving our country in the military and had no legal recognition of our relationships.

“We’ve come so far since then. Last night, shortly after midnight, same-sex couples exchanged their wedding vows in England and Wales. These ceremonies symbolise the fact that, for the first time ever, lesbian, gay and bisexual people are equal under the law of this country.

“This morning we’re seeing the first joyous pictures from up and down the country of the couples who are declaring their love and commitment to one another in the same way as their heterosexual friends and family.

“These images send an immeasurably powerful signal to every young person growing up to be lesbian, gay or bisexual in this country. You can be who you are, love who you love and achieve anything you want – regardless of your sexual orientation.

“Around the world these celebrations stand as a beacon to those fighting for their own fundamental freedoms. Whilst our journeys are unique, our ambition to love and live freely is shared.

“To all the groups, campaigners, activists and politicians who worked tirelessly to help secure this change we say thank you. And to every couple tying the knot today, and in the days, months and years ahead, we say congratulations. We wish you a long and very happy life together.

“Tomorrow, achieving equality both in this country and the world continues. But today we celebrate.”

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Zoe Lyons: Funny lady, funny woman, funny girl!

Hizzie Fletcher gets up close and personal with Zoe.

Zoe Lyons
Zoe Lyons

This month’s cover star, Zoe Lyons, created a huge buzz on the comedy circuit in 2004 when she won the Nivea Funny Women Award 2004 and reached the finals of Channel 4’s So You Think You’re Funny Award in the same year.

As a result she has become a highly sought after act on both the national and international circuit as well as being a regular on BBC 2’s Mock The Week and Michael McIntyre’s Comedy Roadshow. Zoe takes a sideways view of life, picking out the many absurdities and turning them into hilarious routines which she delivers with tremendous energy.

Although Zoe’s career has taken her well beyond her Brighton home she has kept her allegiance to our community with her Bent Double comedy night, which is almost in it’s tenth year. Bent Double is held on the first Sunday of every month, bringing some of the biggest names from the comedy circuit to entertain the “up for it” crowd at Komedia. This night of fun and frolics, hosted by Zoe, offers a brew of comedic delight and a fabulous line up every-time and is a favourite on the Brighton Gay scene.

How did you get into comedy?
“I did my first gig just over 10 years ago now. I had been to Uni and then drama school and I was really struggling to work out what it was I wanted to do with my life. I had always loved watching comedy and I always had this thought that I would try stand up at some point I just didn’t know how to go about it. I started to go to open mike nights to watch new comedians and eventually got the nerve up to give it a go. After my first gig I knew I had found something that I wanted to pursue and that was it… I was away.”

Bent double is about to enter it’s 10th year, what was your original thought process behind the night?
“Chris Green had run a gig at komedia very successfully for years called Screamers. it was a mixed night of stand up comedy and variety type acts and was very much aimed at a gay audience. When he decided that he didn’t want to do it any more Komedia approached me to run a night and Bent Double was born. The show is more stand up comedy based than Screamers was but I have always tried to book acts that I think the predominately gay crowd will enjoy. The gig is a joy to host and I am very proud of the loyal following it has. The greatest compliment for me is when other acts tell me it is one of their favourite gigs to play.”

How has Brighton/ the comedy industry changed in that time?
“Brighton has become a mini hub for comedy over the last 10 years. Not all the new little clubs survive sadly but there are tons of great comedians coming out of Brighton. As stand up has become more popular over the years I guess it is only natural that this city should be nurturing comedic talent. Brighton is a cultural potting shed for all art forms.”

You do a lot of gigs around the UK and beyond, what do you miss about Brighton when you’re away?
“I travel a lot and spend a lot of weekends away and I miss home so badly at times. I can’t tell you the feeling of relief I get every time my train pulls into Hove station. I miss the sea. I think I would find it really hard to move away from the sea now. I just feel very lucky to live here, an easy going city, mere minutes from the Downs, an hour to London and sea lapping at the edges…what is not to like?”

What advice would you give to anyone wanting to enter a career in comedy?
“There is no career path or real structure to this job. I have basically “winged” it for the past 10 years. If you want to get on you have to gig a lot. Do every gig, do good gigs…do really crappy gigs… do them all because it is the only way you learn and get better. Don’t try and copy your comedy heroes on stage, you have to be yourself and that is a lot easier said than done! Also, never agree to do comedy at someone’s Birthday party!”

Where would you like to see yourself in 5 years?
“It’s the travel that will “do you in” in the end with this job so I will need to branch out and try other things. Perhaps writing more for others or a bit of Radio. Like I said, there is no career path as such I just hope my comedic wings keep flapping! I also want to be celebrating Bent Doubles 15th Birthday of course.”

Bent Double
1st Sunday of every month
Komedia,
44-47 Gardner Street, Brighton, BN1 1UN

Pakistani drag star releases new music video on eve of first UK Gay Marriages

Asifa Lahore releases cover of Bollywood hit Tum Hi Ho, featuring an Asian gay wedding.

Asifa Lahore
Asifa Lahore

Drag artist Asifa Lahore is releasing her latest and most politically significant music cover to date, using her position as a global activist to promote gay marriage, family acceptance and to speak out against Section 377 in India.

Unlike her previous videos, Asifa’s latest offering has been funded completely by her fans and followers, in a bid to tackle the lack of South Asian LGBT role models.

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After recording her version of Bollywood love song Tum Hi Ho, Asifa called for support in crowd funding a music video about acceptance and gay marriage. The campaign raised £3426 in under 30 days with the majority of donations coming from the South Asian LGBT community, highlighting the relevance and need for this exposure.

The Tum Hi Ho music video depicts a same sex couple attending a friend’s wedding with their parents, who are adjusting to this unconventional relationship.

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Asifa says: “The song is a beautiful Bollywood ballad about unconditional love crossing boundaries and giving support, a message that anybody, gay or straight can relate to.”

The new music video sees Asifa step out of her trademark camp cheeky persona, adopting a more serious tone to relay the issues that many hold so dear.

She continued: ”My fans may be surprised by my serious role, but in order to do justice to the song, I decided to strip it back and deliver a performance that is raw and relatable”.

“The Tum Hi Ho video has been released to coincide with the first same sex marriages in the UK. But as we celebrate in the UK, the video highlights the ongoing plight in India, where Section 377 has been reinstated, banning gay relationships that were legalised only three years earlier.”

“My version of Tum Hi Ho is about equal love and is a counter action to the stigma, discrimination and anti-LGBT laws being instated in India, Russia, Uganda and Nigeria. The concept of marriage is embedded in South Asian culture and I want to show that South Asian LGBT communities are ready to embrace Gay Marriage in the UK.”

The song has received much acclaim and been played on the BBC Asian Network, where Asifa has spoken out about gay marriage, bullying and Section 377. “This is a topic that means a lot to so many people, within and outside of the LGBT community. I only hope I have done it justice and that we continue the conversation and the fight for equality, here, in India, Russia and wherever people are seen as unequal.”

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About Asifa

Asifa Lahore is the leading British Asian drag artist. As a hostess, performer and DJ, Asifa mixes together elements of her Asian background and British upbringing. She hosts and performs at two of London’s most successful LGBT World Music nights, Club Urban Desi and Disco Rani.

 

Asifa is a global pioneering figure and highly visible spokesperson for the gay community in the UK and South Asia. She uses social media to advocate LGBT activism and pushes boundaries through her music videos.

 

Asifa is also available for interview, to provide comment For more information contact Asifa on Facebook (link). Twitter or on (email and telephone)

 

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