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Ed Miliband, MP
Ed Miliband, MP

I am in my late 50s. Over the years I have witnessed all the legislative changes affecting LGB&T people that has brought us to the present debate over ‘Equal Marriage’.

Often while we made the advances I thought we never took seriously the ‘heart and minds’ argument necessary to make the public at large buy into and embrace the hard won changes.

Today, the Leader of the Labour Party, Ed Miliband MP visited Blatchington Mill School in Hove and took questions on LGBT issues from the young people.

It was a revelation!

The students asked great questions, were not afraid to tackle any LGBT issue and most importantly showed a deep understanding of being respectful and understanding to everyone who is different.

Blatchington Mill School in Hove is at the vanguard of equalities work, dealing with homophobic bullying and all LGBT issues affecting young children in school. Whatever they do with these young children at Blatchington Mill should be rolled out in every school in the country.

I never fully understood how serious the full ramifications of Section 28 were until today.

Section 28 resulted in teachers being afraid to talk about LGBT issues in school, making young people feel that there was something wrong with being LGB&T.

All I can say is on the evidence of what I saw and heard today, ‘We’re safe in their hands’ and I will sleep much better tonight knowing that.

I will also never forgive the architects of Section 28 who made a generation of young people in schools throughout the country feel isolated and unloved through their formative years.

 

 

 

 

Labour leader visits local school

Ed Miliband, MP
Ed Miliband, MP at Blatchington Mill School in Hove

The Leader of the Labour Party, Ed Miliband MP, visited Blatchington Mill School in Hove this afternoon, Friday July 5.

He first met with parents to discuss anti-homophobic bullying strategies and the schools equalities work and then took a question and answer session for forty five minutes with students from all years, outside in the school courtyard.

Subjects covered in the questions ranged from homophobia in sport to homophobic and transphobic bullying in the classroom, from the Brighton bin strike to the recent military coup in Egypt.

In his opening remarks, Mr Miliband said that when he was at school 32 years ago no-one was ‘out’ and nobody discussed lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender issues and questioned why that was. “It was about prejudice” he said, and he explained how through the legislative changes implemented by the last Labour Government right through to the present ‘equal marriage’ debate going through Parliament, the difference now is that in the eyes of the law everyone is equal and valued.

Ed Miliband, MP
Ed Miliband, MP

Questions taken from the students included his views on gay marriage, homophobia in football, the reluctance of the church to support gay marriage and women bishops, his views on bi-phobia and trans phobia and whether he thought there would ever be a trans politician in parliament.

Whilst student attainment and progress at Blatchington Mill are a key school priority, student wellbeing is considered vital so all students are happy and then able to learn to the best of their ability when they are studying.

The school is determined to remove barriers to learning for all students; their ethos is one of celebrating diversity and challenging prejudice in any form. Blatchington Mill is a Stonewall champion school and recently had the opportunity to discuss their anti-bullying strategies with the Brighton and Hove Council anti-bullying scrutiny panel.

Todays visit by Mr Miliband coincides with three student commissioners from Blatchington Mill School travelling to London to attend the Stonewall ‘Education for all Conference’ in London today, which was attended by the Minister for Education, Michael Gove, MP. These students are from Year 9 (13-14 years old) and will receive training on how to lead anti-bullying initiatives in school, as well as how to address and challenge homophobic language and bullying.

Blatchington Mill School was reported as ‘outstanding’ by Ofsted for Behaviour and Safety, including its success in tackling LGBT issues and has continued to expand and advance its proactive work in this area.

For more information about Blatchington Mill School, CLICK HERE: 

Ed Miliband, MP

The ‘Oldest Gay in the Village’ to be Pride Ambassador

George & Somchai
George & Somchai

George Sydney Montague is better known to everyone as the Oldest Gay in the Village. For the last few years he has proudly rode on his mobility scooter on the Pride Parade. In June he celebrated his 90th birthday and invited friends and family to his home on Marine Parade in Brighton. People came from as far afield as Singapore and Norway to give George their best wishes.

George was born in 1923 and left school in 1937 aged 14 saying in his own words: “I was not grammar school material”. The only thing George was good at was woodwork so he became a pattern maker. In 1941 he was 18 and desperate to join up and fight for his country. Despite working in a reserve occupation, which meant he didn’t have to fight, he managed to pass the test and was accepted as an air crew wireless operator/air gunner, but failed the exams. He was posted to Southern Rhodesia where he was promoted to the rank of corporal as a physical training instructor. On being demobbed he started his own pattern making business which eventually moved from wood into metal patterns and became very successful.

George realised he was gay in his twenties, when it was illegal to be homosexual. Like many of his friends at the time George married. He was 37. His wife, Vera, knew George’s gay friends but the issue of George’s sexuality was never discussed. George believed if he got married he could stop being gay, which of course never happened. He fathered three children and now has three grandchildren who he is very proud of and loves dearly. At a family gathering after his family had grown up, George decided to come out to his children and the rest of his family.

He said:

“Sorry guys your dad is gay”.

Paula his daughter, said:

“Oh daddy we’ve know for years.”

After his coming out George lived apart from his wife and after a while they became friends again.

George says:

“Vera found someone who made the last years of her life far happier than I could.”

George, his family and grandchildren
George, his family and grandchildren

On June 28, 1997 George met his partner Somchai Phukkhlai in London; they have been civil partners since 2006 and will shortly be celebrating their 16th anniversary together. They have homes in Brighton and Thailand where they spend the English winter.

George says the thing that most pleased him about his birthday celebration was a letter he received afterwards from his sister-in-law regarding the complete change of her views on homosexuality after meeting all his friends at his 90th birthday party.

She wrote:

“It was an education to find that your gay community are no different to anyone else; I found them pleasant and warm and it’s really good that there is no longer any discrimination which should, on reflection, have disappeared many eons ago.”

George will once again be on his scooter at Pride this year as one of the first four Pride Ambassadors ever in Brighton & Hove. He received the largest number of nominations in June and is immensely proud to have been chosen and says he will represent all the older LGBT people in the city.

George at Pride 2012
George at Pride 2012

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hove MP Weatherley slams King Alfred report

Mike Weatherley, MP
Mike Weatherley, MP

Mike Weatherley, the Conservative MP for Hove and Portslade, has condemned a report on the King Alfred Leisure facility made by a Brighton & Hove City Council cross-party Project Board.

The Brighton & Hove City Council Policy & Resources Committee is meeting on Thursday, July 11 to rubber stamp a series of recommendations. However, Mike was astonished to learn that plans for a 50m swimming pool have been abandoned at this early stage, in favour an inferior 25m pool.

Mike recently held a packed public meeting on the future of the King Alfred Leisure Centre at Hove Town Hall where it was clear those attending preferred a 50m pool.

He said:

“I was incredibly disappointed by the outcome of this report. Not embracing a 50m pool is a completely wasted opportunity. It was abundantly clear from the public meeting that I recently held that residents overwhelming support a 50m pool and it appears that the council has failed to listen. This decision, if it is approved at the committee meeting, demonstrates a complete lack of vision, particularly when we are supposed to build upon our Olympic legacy.”

To read the report, CLICK HERE:

 

Say ‘I Do’ to Peers

Stonewall

Stonewall and Gay Star News today launch an online campaign calling on supporters of equal marriage to film short videos explaining why they’re saying ‘I Do’ to equal marriage.

The Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill returns to the House of Lords on Monday, July 8 for its Report Stage. Opponents of equality have already indicated that they’ll be seeking ‘opt-outs’ to prevent schools from ‘promoting’ same-sex marriage and will push a series of wrecking amendments to a vote.

Stonewall and Gay Star News are asking supporters to use Instagram to film themselves saying ‘I Do’ to equal marriage and giving their reasons for supporting the Bill, in videos of up to 10 seconds. Users will simply need to record their videos and post them with @stonewalluk, @gaystarnews and #equalmarriage in the caption comments.

Instagram is free to download and easy to set up – the app is available for iPhone/iPad and Android devices.

Stonewall and Gay Star News will share selected videos to over 100,000 followers on Facebook and Twitter over the coming weeks, making sure supporters’ views on equal marriage are shared widely as the Bill reaches its final stages.

Stonewall External Affairs Officer Richard Lane, commented:

“Although we’ve seen some very supportive votes in Parliament for equal marriage in recent months we never take things for granted and can’t afford to let a handful of peers jilt us at the altar. We’re expecting a series of close votes on mischievous and damaging wrecking amendments. Supporters of marriage equality need to remind Peers that now is the time to say “I Do” to equal marriage.”

Gay Star News director Scott Nunn, said:

“We have seen some amazing speeches for equal marriage in Parliament and heard some ridiculous comments from some of the opponents. That’s why it is so important for real people’s voices to be heard and for you to share how this legislation can change your life. With everyone’s support on social media we can show that love and gay marriage go together like a horse and carriage.”

 

Help for Heroes charity event

Help For Heroes at Bulldog

Wilma Fingerdoo will be hosting a benefit at the Bulldog in St James Street for Help for Heroes, a charity formed to help those who have been wounded in Britain’s current conflicts at the Bulldog, St James’ Street on Sunday, August 11.

Wilma Fingerdoo
Wilma Fingerdoo

Artists confirmed to appear include:

Dave Lynn, Lola Lasagne, Maisie Trollette, Davina Sparkle, Connie Conway, Lucinda Lashes, JP Christian, Miss Jason, James Bedford, Nicolette Street, Trudi Styles/Pianoman, Misty Lee, Candy Slag in Drag, Mickey & Amy, Lady La Rue, Tammy Twinkle, Darren Hamlin and Sally Vate. The finale will include a set from the Actually Gay Men’s Chorus.

The party kicks off at 3pm, all artists are donating their time free of charge and all proceeds will go to Help for Heroes. Thee will be a raffle, bucket collections and auctions as well as selling Help For Heroes merchandise.

Normal Sunday Bulldog happy hours will apply.

For up to date information, CLICK HERE:

 

 

 

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